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hey kiddos! well im ur typical 16 yr. old girl and i love 2 have fun and help people! well ask away and if u want 2 know nething bout me just ask or IM luv u all!
E-mail: irishqtpie7488@netscape.net
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Location: illinois
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Member Since: July 19, 2004
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ok so there is this guy that i really like.. but the problem is he lieks my best friend. but my best friend likes this other guy. the other guy that i dont like likes me and i dont wanna lead him on or anything but i got with him last weekend. we got a little drunk and things got a little crazy. so now the guy i like looks at me weird because i got with one of his best friends.. i dont like his friend that i got with. things just happened. but i really really like this guy and i think i messed things up. what should i do to let him know i like him? and not his best friend.

PS... im old fashioned.. no first moves for me!:) (link)
ok well in my opinion since u say ur old fashioned....u should first explain 2 the guy u got with that u dont like him like that and u didnt mean 2 lead him on but since u both were a bit intoxicated then u couldnt really control what happened and then let him down easy and tell him u just want 2 be friends so he doesnt think that u used him.

then about the one u do like explain 2 him what happened and that u dont have ne romantical feelings for his friend whatsoever, and that things just happened that u couldnt control since u were drunk. then since u dont wanna make the first move get a group of friends 2gether guys and girls and then him so he doesnt think u just wanna get with him right there and u guys can get 2 know each other then and then let it go from there 2 see what happens...and just be yourself and try 2 find things that u both have in common...well keep me updated and i hope i helped ya and if u need nething else u can IM me at irishqtpie7488

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hello i*m really into this guy and i seriously like him SO much i think i might be in love but i hardly see him anymore and its killing me and dont say just ask him to hang out b/c we cant complicated situation... what do i do i have totally fallen for this guys and i CANT get back up!!!! .x.cOnfUseD.x.
p.s i*m 14 and a girl (link)
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well i wont tell u 2 hang out with him seeing that the situation is that u barely see him nemore but u really need 2 tell him how u feel so he knows then u will be able 2 find out if he feels the same way and then maybe u guys can work everything/or something out..dont give up just bc u dont see him alot nemore...well i hope i helped keep me updated and if u need nething send me another question or IM me on irishqtpie7488

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Whats the point in trying to find a girl these days? There is so much competition out there...what is the point? A girl will say she likes you and the next shes on to another guy..that obviously must be better...so whats the point in even trying? Ive tried so many times and every single time its because they find someone better. Theres always going to be someone out there better looking...more athletic...better body...better personality..so tell me..WHATS THE POINT? (link)
Honestly u should keep trying bc there are some girls out there like myself who look at personality and intelligence before body and looks. i mean dont get me wrong body and looks is important but personality and intelligence is what makes u see the real person inside the guy. so keep trying and keep me updated if u ever need ne1 to talk 2 just Im me at irishqtpie7488

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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
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***/confuzzzed/*** (link)
Confuzzed...im sure that came very shocking 2 u bc its ur bff and u probably never would have expected it, but if u guys are really bffs dont treat her differently just let her know that all u will be with her is friends and nothing more then that just so she knows. well i hope i helped
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