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I really really like my best guy friend. And if I ever lost him, I would feel like dieing. He likes me too. But I'm afraid that if we end up dating and breaking up, we won't be like we are now anymore. All of my ex's I barely talked to after we broke up. No matter who broke up with who. And one of my ex's and I who now hate each other, used to be really close. So if you even understand this sinse it's kind of confusing. Can someone out there please give me advice on what to do?
Ps- Don't tell me to forget about him-because I think about him all the time.
I've already thought about this for a long time and I still don't know what to do.
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Sorry this is long but I will rate!!
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Well, ive gone through the same tough desision as you. i know how hard it is, but if he knows you like him, and you know he likes you, whats the point of torturing yourselves? go for it! thats what i did, yes we ended up breaking up, but now he's my best guy friend. it works differently with everybody. i have also had a bad experience with that situation. it depends on the boy you choose to date. if he is more sensitive and caring and he really likes you, he wont care if you break up. He'll accept the fact you arent dating anymore and be fine with it. before you make your desision, make sure you know his personality well enough to know how he will react. i hope i helped you out.
-Mary Beth