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Q: so... i have this boyfriend who has been waiting to get any from me. and he does and saids i give the "best head ever and hes never gonna find someone that fits him well like me". but he has this curiousity and likes 2 other girls, its fine i understand the male ways(i've been throgh it). he keeps asking me if i want to have a three-some with one of the girls he likes. i keep saying that i dont know, but really i feel that its just like cheating(a way to get around it). i love the boy, what should i do?
if you really love the boy ,
he wouldn't ask you a dumb question if he can have a three-some with some other girl .


if you want to you can ,
its not really cheating ,

cheating is like doing something behind someone elses back ,
if you like stuff like that then go for it ,

but if you guys wanna have a serious relationship then thats a no no .

xoxo

Q: my ex boyfriend tells me that he loves me.
but then i broke up with him, becuz of things.
and we wanted to get together...

not to mention i love him too.
but then theres this girl he talks to and he likes her, i EVEN talk to her. sometimes...

now, he is stuck between me and this girl, which is really funny. becuz he says we are so much alike.
me and him can talk about anything!
i cant get him off outta my head, adn he stuck.

wat should i do, tell the girl and talk to him... or wat?!
honestly ,
if he likes somebody else i think that you should move on too .

and wait for him to come back ,
if he comes back then ask him why all of a sudden are you coming back to me , are you realizing how much you love me ,



i've had the same drama ,
me and my ex went off and on ,
and we're back together

just give him some space ,
make him miss you .


xoxo

Q: So there's this guy that just started talkin' to me. Like hittin' on me and stuff. I figured if i start talkin' to him imma start likin' him. I decide to start talkin' to him... and what do you know, i fall for this boy. But the thing is when I found out that he liked me, he just started acting weird and shy. And now he barely even talks to me. And when I asked him if he's just tryna hook up with me or actually have a relationship, he said have a relationship. I'm confused why that happened cause before I found out that he liked me he wasn't shy at all. I know he's not the shy type even his friends tell me. So what should I do or say to him?
its a good thing ,
he's only shy because he's nervous ,
and for some people its hard to act the same , when that person knows that they like you ,


go up to him
and tell him how you feel ,
and tell him that he's acting different and shy and doesn't have to act that way towards you .


be nice tho ,


xoxo /.

Q: Age= 15
Gender= Female.
and i'm brown but i act white haha!

um okay so i really like black guys,but i'm affraid i act and dress too white for them to like me.

what should i do?
well ,
there are some guys that like white girls ,
don't change your self for black guys .


there are cool white boys too .


lol



Q: aiteee soo.
i`m not tha girl who gets guyss.
& i mean, i kno i`ma pretty girl .
what can i do ta get guys to notice me more
& not as a little prude girl, which they think of me now?
if you want guys to notice you more ,
obvious you are not speakin up ,
guys like a girl that has something to say ,


not something mean or smart ass'd
a girl that can speak her true self ,
that is real and not fake ,

a girl that has a voice .

& if you prude ,
be fuckin proud of it!

at least you aint no hoe ,
and wont get pregnant in highschool ,

stick to your belifs and don't let anybody , especially any boy change that .

Q: Im donee with relationships now bcuhz all guys do is hurt ya.
but i still want to, ya kno, have fun.

how can i still do bf/gf things with a guy who im not wit without being known as a whore?
do guys like that better than a relationship?
well its basically a thing called friends w. benifits .

if you sleep around and do stuff with many other guys , then you would look like a hoe ,
but if its one dude , then maybe it will actually go somewhere .



and guys do like doing that ,
but it depends on how the guy is .
if they are the committing type or the one that likes to go around from girl to girl .

xoxo

Q: What do you think about friends with benefits? like.. good or bad idea?
idk ,
my opinion is that i think its only just to get free ass ,

but if you like it
then go ahead ,

but in another way ,
i don't think you'd be respecting yourself either

Q: hey .
i was wondering if you had any tips on having an amzing orgasm during masterbation.
like,
i dont stick my finguhs inside because im a virgin, i rub on the outside.
do you have any tips on an amahzing orgasm?
mm you can use a stuffed animal ,
pillow , or have somebody else do it for you , using something that vibrates on your clit is what most people i know do .

try those .

xoxo

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