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My name is Stacey. And you should be happy to know me : ]
I go to Mehlville High school and I live in STL.
I'm 16.
my friends mean the world to me. I would do anything for them. Shopping would have to be my favorite thing to do. I have brown hair and blue eyes. I am very tall 5'9".


I think that I am pretty good at answering questions. I've been through a lot in my life. So I have good experence in many subjects.


My best friend is Nana
(disasterxwoah)
check her out sometime =]




advice

16/f


I use to hang out with 3 friends. It was always [A], [B] & me. Well, [A] got a boyfriend, and now she spends all her time with him. She never calls and wants to hang with [B] & me. She's always at his house and when we do hang out hes always there. Not that it's a bad thing, I mean i like the guy, but it gets annoying. When [A], [B], and me and all our friends hang out [A] always ends up spending all her time with her boyfriend and totally ignores everyone else. [B] & me are close still, and I don't see that ending, but [B] and I feel like we lost a best friend, someone who we use to spend alot of time with and someone we enjoyed spending time with. So stacey what I'm asking is.. how can [B] and I tell our friend shes hurting us. Everytime we try she tells us its nothing and we're just over worried or she tells me I spend to much time with my boyfriend, which I do spend alot of time with him, but I don't ignore my other friends when I'm around him. Any help ?

humm i have the same exact problem. well i think that you and [B] need to tell [A] how you feel. because its not right that you have to deal with that. i think that if [A] were to know how you and [B] feel then she would try to spend more time with you guys. she should understand and if she doesnt then i guess it will have you be you and [B]. which may not be so bad in your case although you will miss [A] she wont stay with her b/f forever.

i hope i helped ♥ Stacey

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Me and my ex dated for a month and like 6 days and then he broke up with me. I made mistakes that pushed him away but I truly love him soo much and havent cryed so much in my lifetime. I need him and he hates me now and wont even talk to me and I cant stand it. Its killing me. I dont know what to do. I need him to talk to me and be part of my life. I cant move on I love him and it sucks

Please help me Im sick of crying

I've been there, and it sucks. I ended up getting the guy back in my life. It was hard. Guys are good at holding grudges.

Trying doing this..
Be like please just give me 5 minutes thats all I need, either do that on the phone or in person it tends to work better that way, then be like I'm sorry for everything I've ever done to you. I love you so much and I can't imagine myself with out you. Be like we just need to talk and if right now if friends is all you can be with me thats fine because i can't stand not talking to you.

I hope I helped. ♥ Stacey

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years, give or take. We broke up a couple of times, longest being last year for 3 months. I broke up with him because I wasn't happy, as I felt he was being too clingy and I love my independence and space. Also, I was extremely attracted to someone else. After 3 months of constant drinking, and him being extremely devastated we got back together. A year on, he has really made the effort, and is less clingy, ie. lets me go out with my friends, and do things on my own without having to ask his permission. Thing is, a year on I think I still have strong feelings for that other guy, and I'm not sure if I'm still attracted to my boyfriend. We don't make love on a regular basis, because I'm never in the humour, and he's got a lot of silly little habits which are starting to drive me insane and they shouldn't. I feel frustrated and stressed when I'm with him, and sometimes relieved to be on my own. At the same time, I love him to bits as a best friend, and I don't want to lose that. I don't know what I should do. I'm so eternally confused by the whole thing. 4 years is a long time, and I don't want to throw it away on a whim. I'm 23 years old, and don't think I'm ready for this type of commitment. Please help me, I would love some good advice for this situation. Please!

If I were in your situation I would break up with him. Even though you have been with him for 4 years. And the little things that are bugging you about him, that is a sign telling you that you need to end it. If you do choose to break up with him, yes, it will be hard but he should understand. You are only 23 years old you have a whole life to live. You need to see what else is out there because who knows you might find someone better. If you really do love eachother, your hearts will find a way back to eachother.

I hope I helped.
♥ Stacey

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