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Okay well My problem is I like someone that is about 3 yrs older and i dunno what to do about this cuz my b-day is soon so i will be 16 and he is 18 now so this makes me only 15 and i heard it's jailbate, so should i still date him? I really like him a lot and he treats me so good...
~confused lover~

hey...

...I totally think that you should date him!!!! I like someone that's 3 years older than me and he likes me back and treats me so0o0o0o0o good. I'm 14 and he's 17. You should totally date him because age is nothing but a number baby! If you like someone as much as you like him you should never let them go. It's great that he treats you good...it just shows that he would be a great bf. Don't suffer of a broken heart just because of you're age difference. I mean some people are like 5 years apart in their age and they still love each other no matter what. Stick with him no matter what if he's so good to you. Lots of luck and love...- Melisa

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okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers

hey..
.. that was good of you not to kiss him b/c he has a girlfriend. there is nothing wrong with a 13 year old liking a 17 year old. I mean im 14 and i like this 17 year old bad!!!!! we might hook up too. my advice to u is to stay real close friends with adam and when he breaks up with his g/f to try to get with him. you shouldn't let someone that u really like go. just be his friend and i hope everything works out with you and adam. keep in touch.

- ♥ Melisa

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