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I am 13, and sexually active. DONT tell me off, becuase its MY life. I do use condoms, and I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, whom i have no intention of breaking up with. We love eachother very much, have a very healthy relationship (my mom agrees!), and sex was a wanted mutual agreement. I would like to tell my mom, because she thinks I tell her everything, but she says she would sign custody of me over to my strict Aunt if I lost my virginity (she would like me to wait until im married!!). She also says that its my life and one way or another, im going to do what I want, i just have to deal with the consequences, one of which being the Aunt issue (technically, thats saying i DONT have a choice). I dont know what I should do, because 1) I feel like I should tell her (but dont think i can) 2) I would like birth control but 3) I dont want to lose my boyfriend... Any advice?? (link)
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Every parent wants their children to wait till there married but hiding this from your mother could hurt your relationship with her tell her that you have an ask her notto get mad. Tell her about the precautions you take an ask to be put on birth control.
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how do i know if i can be pregnant does popping ur cherry make u bleed? (link)
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yes popping your cherry so to speak does make you bleed that's showing that u somewhat are a woman. But to be eligible to get pregnant are u sure that's what you want right now? If your at a good age with a steady good paying job then think about pregnancy. i am 20 an all i have is my loving husband to depend on its hard right now an babys not here yet go to a dr an get tested or just wait when the time is right it will happen i have tried to get pregnant for the last 3 yrs an all of a sudden all that work paid off in a way.
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last year me and this guy were close n we liked eachother but never told eachother . this year he changed and flirts with evry single girl including me . even though he write the same stuff to me as the other girls does he actually have any feelings for me ? i am a female 13 years old . he is a male 15 years old . (link)
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He is what they call a player. Watch though cause he could have feelings for you but on the other hand he could be getting you into his trap. But you really don't need to worry about having a boyfriend you are a smart young girl with a lot going for her keep your mind focused on the bigger things in life at l;east wait until high school before worrying about a guy. Seriously take it from someone whos been there an done that.
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Ok I have never EVER been jealous of a partner's ex before. Except now I have.
In all honesty, I dont even know why I am jealous. I have seen many pictures of her & she isnt ugly, but I wouldnt say shes pretty, she doesnt really make an effort with herself. So I know that its not the looks thing.
In fact I dont know if its jealousy. Id rather be in my situation than hers. But for some reason I couldnt stop looking at pictures of her & my boyfriend together. & im interested in seeing what shes doing now, like if she has a new boyfriend, what shes been up to, looking at her pics etc.
They split about 2 months before we got together & its played on my mind whether he still likes her, they were together for 8 months. My boyfriend denies still liking her but I think he only says that because he doesnt want to admit to it. I know he loved her because I was friends with him & saw them together & he told me he did.
I think its because im quite a competitive person & id hate to feel second best, what do you think? has anyone felt this way before? (link)
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Its completely normal to feel this way especially if you have deep emotions for him. Just talk to him but don't bring it up too much this could cause a break up. If he says he doesn't want her or think of her believe him unless he proves you wrong then you have a reason to worry.
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