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advice

Kinda late at night but ohk..

I am writing a note letter to my ex that lives in florida i live in maine 6 months ago we broke up and don't really talk that much. I love him to death but he tells me constantly that he was not a great boyfriend and i need to get over him he wants me to because he feels it would be easier on me. he claims to be totally over me even tho we were in love. But ohk he was full of shit on the word so just dont believe it lol. well in this letter i want to tell him stuff like how i feel about him now, what he taught me like in the way of what to really look for in a guy and dont fall in love fast, stuff like that.17/f

Quite honestly, as someone who has been in this situation 2 too many times. (two long distance relationships.) I live in MA and both of my exes live in Florida. I thought that by writing a letter telling one of them how they had helped me see that there is more to a relationship than loving someone and all of those wonderful things you want to write in your own letter.. I thought it would help. Maybe it would bring him back.. or maybe it would help me get over him. But it didn't work. Quite honestly, I feel it was a waste of my time and words. Save your meaningful words for a guy who will truly love you and understand that a relationship is more than just love.

If I could give you any bit of advice, it would be to NOT write that letter. Or maybe to write the letter, but don't send it. Getting everything out on paper might help, without actually going through with sending it. You have learned your own lessons about love and life.. let him learn his on his own.

I hope I helped, hun. Good luck.

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