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So my name's nicole & I'm 16 years old. I love music and I love to write. I find them both great ways to express yourself. I consider myself pretty good at giving advice, my friends tend to think so too. So send your questions my way and I'll be sure to answer them the best that I can! Oh, and one more thing, remember to always be yourself. Just you, and no one else. That's the biggest advice you could ever get. Take it to heart. Peace

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ok well i am at a loss
so i have liked a guy for over 2 years
i was told he doesnt like me so it is just a matter of getting over him...which i havin trouble doing...but then there is this other guy...i have liked him before like on and off for well we are kinda talking again...i want to talk to him more but he seems like a big flirt and player...i just dont want to really fall for him because i dont want to have to deal with it if he decideds he doesnt like me...i have the problem with the guy i cant get over who i have liked for over 2 years and i really dont want another one of those...o ya and the guy i talking to is playing hard to get...what should i do??

First off, you need to get over this 2-year guy. I know how hard it is to get over someone, but surround yourself with friends and try not to think about him as much. For example, if there are certain things or songs or anything that make you think of him, try avoiding them. It'll help. And if you concentrate on this other guy, that will help too. Get to know him a little more, maybe you'll realize he's more than what seems to be a huge flirt. But don't start liking this guy for a rebound crush/liking him/whatever. Try not to fall to fast if you find out you do like him. Getting too emotionally attached is what can cause alot of pain if it turns out he doesn't like you. But yeah I think you should definitely give this flirt a shot. Hearts get broken, but hold your head high and go on with life.

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