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hola! my name is kait. im fouteen. i swim, dance, twirl, and act. i loove my friends. i have no idea where i would be without them. my family is awesome too. without their support i could never be where i am today. my hopes for the future are to go to duquesne university, do the whole pgh. triathalon, and travel the many different countries. i love helping people and giving them advice..hope i'll be able to help you.
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14/f
okays, so i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for about 4 months now. okay, i'm his LONGEST relationship, so i'd rather say he's still learning. we were at school today, and he was walking me home. and one of my close friend's just met him after i introduced her to him. and she was only with us for about 10 minutes, and she told me that he doesn't treat me right. I must be really slow, because i don't see that yet. So i'm waiting to see if he does or not. is it natural that you don't see if your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't treat you right? i noticed earlier, but i don't know now... i can't see it anymore. >.
sometimes you dont see it because sometimes you like someone soo much and you think they are just the greatest person ever and would never do that. i guess just pay attention and talk to somebody like a friend or sister ect. about it and have them see the way he treats you then make your decision.
good luckk!
17/m
Ok, so i have a problem with girls when it comes to hooking up. Sure i can talk to girl all night, say at a party. I have no problem with talking and flirting, but i can never seem to take the next step and hook up. what do i do
maybe you have a hard time taking the next step because you dont have strong enough feelings for that girl..
but if you think you really like them then just calm down because if they were talking and flirting with you chances are they probably like you too...
just keep flirting and talking and hinting to them that you like them and when the moments right just take the step!
good luckk!
I a horrible at getting people presents. But, my boyfriends birthday is coming up and I want to get him something he will for sure like. I can't like, get him a car but other than that money is not a problem, there is no budget. He likes confederate flags, umm...western movies, and stuff like that. Any ideas? thanks!
does he like any sports or concerts happening around you? get him and you tickets for it and take him to dinner and the game. i've always wanted to do that lol...or like video games...music? sorry i dont have a lot of ideas.
hope it helps anyways!
xokaitox
ok so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 1 month and i have decided that i am not really that into him anymore i mean we kissed and have had our moments but is there a nice way to let him down gently and still be friends!?!
breaking up with somebody is always really hard. i think you should just call him or see him but dont do it over aim or e-mail. and just tell him that you dont have the same feelings for him anymore. tell him you still want to be friends, but tell him like you mean it. you can still hang out with him and let him know that. treat him like one of your friends from now on..hope this helps!
xokaitox
my boyfriend of 3 years lived with me for like 3 months or so, and now he moved a state away. i'm not going to see him very much because he's going to be working full time and go to school. what can i do to stop crying? please help
go out with friends. do things you enjoy to keep your mind off of it. talk to him when your sad, he'll help you get through it.
hope this helps!
xokaitox
why do some people of you found out that you like them and now they try to ignore you because you found out that you like them?
sometimes people get scared if they find out someone likes them. i know it sounds weird but you just have to give them their space to think things out.
hope this helps!
xokaitox
My very best freind in th whole world has this wonderful boyfriend who she complelty in love with .. and he likes her tooo but.. i tihnk he also lieks me. We tlka on the phone all the time (it used to just be when they were in a fight but now he calls me all the time, MORE then he cals her) he tells me he loves her alot but then he will say sometihng like " after me an jen broke u p would we ever have a chance?" and i always thought he was joking until today when he said "man this really sucks if me and jen broke up i wouldnt ever have a chance with you" and then last night he told me he would rather talk to me then his on gf....
HELP!
i know exactly how you feel. but dont make the mistake i made. if she is truely your very best friend, just remember shes not going to be happy with it.
my suggestion is that her boyfriend should break up with her instead of leading her on that he does still like her however you should definitly wait 2-3 weeks until you get together with him.
hope everything works!
xokaitox
my bf and i have been going out for over a year and i really love him. the problem is that lots of other girls like him too. girls are always calling and texting him, inviting him to do stuff, and hanging all over him, even in front of me. i always hear rumors about girls saying they like my bf and wish we'd break up. some of these girls are even my "friends." and im thinking HELLO, he has a girlfriend!!! is that normal behavior? becuz i just dont get it. i would never, ever throw myself at a guy who is taken. my dad says i should get mad at them and say something like "hey, stay away from my bf!" but im just not like that... i dont want to start any drama or seem like im jealous or overprotective. but i feel that way inside, and im tired of worrying about losing my bf or being betrayed by a supposed friend.
just talk to him about it. it may seem akward to but if you've been going out for over a year, then you two are probably pretty close. the other girls are going to keep trying to get closer to him but if you and him just keep staying together its just going to make them more jealous and eventually they'll stop. just talk to him!
hope this helps!
xokaitox
ok, i like this guy, lets call him Jim. and he likes my friend Cal, and she likes him back. My friend Connor told Jim this,"You know Abby[me] likes you." and Jim is like ya, i know. but i didnt know that he knew. Jim called me pretty and stuff but i dont know what to do bc now he knows that i like him, and now i cant talk to him. i see him all the time in the hall, after school for track, and at open gym every tuesday. So its really awkward bc now i just cant even talk to him as a friend. i dont know what to do. please help. SHould i talk to him? but if i do, hes not the kind of guy who is mushy and stuff so idk if thatll work. i know he doesnt want to go out with me, well, i dont know but i probably can guess. so what should i do? sorry its kinda long
act like you dont know he likes you..i know it sounds hard to do but seriously if he talked to you and called you pretty and stuff then he is either a player or he likes you. dont wait around just because your friend likes him. do what you feel is right.
good luck! =]