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My friend has this guy at school that she likes, and he is always turning around in math asking her questions. But when they have math homework he always gets them right. She wants to know, is he flirting with her???

absoulutly. Either that, or your friend is a really good teacher =).

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i think i like my best friend and we have known eachother for 3 years and i have been with him through think and thin and i just can't take it anymore i need help and i what to know if i should tell him or not? but what if he doesnt like me back? i am confuused:/

Well, just wait a little. Until you cant hold it in anymore. Just really take some time [if you havent already], and think about your friendship. I am friends with a few of my ex bfs and others im not friends with, so you really have to see if it would work out "friend wise". If you do not feel that he likes you back dont really make a big deal out of it. But if you maybe feel like he does like you then make an effort to try and talk to him about it. Remember, if he is really your best friend. He will except that you like him.

Good Luck! =)

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okay so there is this guy. hes in like 4 of my classes. he has a girlfriend. and they have been going out since like last summer. i think i like him, but im not sure. one of my bestfriends likes him to. he says that shes hott but he doesn;t like her since hes with the other girl. his girlfriend doesn't sit at out lunch table but he does.he always sits next to me at lunch. and when we are going from lunch to class my bestfriend says hes always flirting with me and i am like haha ok w/e. he is in my reach class and when we dont have connect days he is always right next me or he tells me to come over to him. so those days in that class we are ALWAYS together. when we are sitting down he wraps his legs around mine. he always has a way to touch me. when he asks for a high five then i give him one and then we hold hands for a few seconds. when i get out of my seat he always hold my waist. and when we sit together he like rubs my leg. i think i like him but his g.f is one of my good friends and my beast friend likes him but she already went out with him. and she says that he always flirts with me and that he likes me but hes with someone else. do you think he likes me?. please helpp..

Well what he is doing is not right if he has a girlfriend. So i know he might be doing this stuff to you and even if you like him you can not just let him do it. Remind him that he has a girlfriend and that is very close to cheating. I know your best friend likes him but if youre "not sure" if you like him...then you really dont. You know when you like someone. Also, you might be giving off hints that you like him and if he has a girlfriend...youre being just as bad as he is. You sound like a really nice girl and im not trying to judge but just remember that he has a girlfriend. =)

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How do I go in for my first kiss? I want to kiss my bf so bad but idk what to do in order to not make a fool out of myself. (Real kiss, not just a peck)

Well... You really want to wait for the right time. And you'll know what i mean when its the right time. Go slow and look him in the eyes and smile at him and then slowly move in. And if it doesnt work out, dont act embrassed.Just try again later. =)

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how do you makeout???

Well... first you both move in slowly and both slightyly tilt both your heads different ways. When your lips are on each others, dont be rough. Lightly push on their lips and slightly open your mouth and slowly slick your toungh in their mouth and they will do it to you. You lightly push in their tounge and just open and close your mouth,but be sure not to bit their tounge.lol. That is why you should go slow until you are more experienced.=)
good luck =)

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does your cherry pop every time you have sex?

Nope. It only gets popped once.UNLESS, you have sex and the guy doesnt go that deep.

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so i know this guy naythan and i think hes going to be a sophmore or junior.. and im a senior... anyway.. ive thought he was reallly hot since middle school. would the age difference be really weird if we got together?
ps- just thinking about him makes me horny :)

No way!lol.Age difference doesnt matter at all. This is highschool, we are all sopposed to be more mature and maybe even find our furte husband or wife. Dating someone that is younger then you could accually be a good thing. Its a different experience.=]

And if he makes you horny...go for it!lol =]

good luck!=]

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you seem like a pretty cool person - hopefully you'll understand . alright , im 12 years old & my brother is 14 . he has a TOTALLY adorable friend . i always joke around with him that he likes me like STOP HITTING ON ME ! and all that .. but we went to michigan for the weekend [ my brother , my parents , bros friend , my friend & me ] yeah . and my friend kept giving hints to him that i liked him . so he pretty much picked up that i was fucking insanely CRAZY for him . and i fell asleep , and he carried me to my bed , and he would keep making jokes to my friend that he should kisss me when he thought i was sleeping .. so yeahh . im really in love with him & i promise you its not normal 12 year old love . i really wanna spend the rest of my life with him ! its so crazy . questions ? hopefully ill answer them here .. hes single . my brother says he wouldnt care if i went out with him .. and idk what he thinks of the age difference . my sn is letzs go partyy .. please ASAP ♥ my names hanna .

Alright,well go for it! Just ask him out for give more hints that you want him to ask you out.Beleive me, i know you think that you this will last forever and you wnat it to more hte anything,but i have felt the same...and most likely its not goin to. Im sorry to say...BUT, you could have a really good realationship wit him! just keep givin off the hints!! =]

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I was just wondering if you have ever had sex before. If you have do you know any tricks or anything I can do to be prepared because i think my special night is going to be tomorrow tonight. Also if youve had experience, I was thinking that you might know something to make it go as smooth as possible. Thanks!

Well no. Ive never had sex, but there are a few things i think you could do to make the night more enjoyable and special. Maybe [if youre a girl] strip for him. You could even just start out slow like making out and just start gettin into touchin and just undressing each other. Make sure you let him or her know that to love them,and that they mean so much to do. As long as you let the person know you love and care about them then everything should go pretty good if not great. =]

good luck! =]

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I've liked this guy for a really long time. I recently just saw him again for the first time in 3 months and I went crazy. I like him so much now! I don't know what to do. I think he hates me, but I can't stand the thought of never being with him! Any advice?

Well,first you have to see if he has a girlfriend or if he likes someone else.If he does, youre gonna have to back off, but if he doesnt then just try talkin to him and bein nice. Dont let him know at first that you like him.Just let things flow.
=]

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okay well im a girl and lately ive been really really attracted to other girls. i dont know why guys just dont appeal to me. but anyway i want to learn other ways to pleasure myself besides sticking fingers into my vagina. oh yeah and i think i know some people who also feel the way i do so do you have any tips on how i can pleasure other girls when the time is right?

vibraters or dildos will always do the trick. Oral sex i guess would be good. Other then that, i would just say expirement with different objects.
=]

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ok so i am a 12/f i really really like this guy. he is really experienced and i am not at all. the thing is he just recently got a girlfriend and i dont really want to go out with him and i dont want to take him from her. she is also one of my really good friends and she doesn't know. he used to like me and i said no to him becasue i was nervous to make out with him then. but now i really want to make out with him. and idk how to because i have never done it and he already has a girlfriend..but it is like all i ever think about now.
can you help me please?!
thanks

This ones tough. I'm sorry to say that you might just have to wait and see what happens with him and your friend. If he used to like you there is a chance that me might like you again and and maybe even still likes you. If i were you i would try and find another guy to make out with in the time being. =]

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so i was reading your advice and you give a lot of good advice on sex and stuff this is more about a "crush". so im a freshman now and ive only liked this guy for 3 days or so. i went out with him a while ago and now were friends and i like him more every time i see or talk to him. and i'm hanging out with him with another friend tonight and i want to know if he likes me or just flirts with me or whatever and i want to ask him out soon but i dont know how to do it..in school id be so scared but idk. what do you think i should do? sorry this is long and confusing

Well, You sound very familiar to my best friend. And she is going through the same exact thing, so here is what i would do...Just get to know him a little more. Tonight dont make a sudden move unless you have a feeling he might be thinking the same thing. Dont really make a big deal about you liking him the whole night, unless you want to hint off that you like him.But in these cases i usually just say GO FOR IT!!! What have u got to lose? If hes really your friend and youre worried about him not being your friend if he knows you like him,then dont worry, because he woudlnt be a real friend anyway. But you see, if he is like the guy my best friend likes, then you wont have to worry about you guys not being friends.

good luck tonight =]

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i was raped. next to a tyranasarus in the natural history musaum. i am pretrified of them ever since. Everyone thinks im crazy but i know that the man is following me. His name is john and from there on thats all i know. He really likes dinosaurs and he touches himself in public and his pubic hair is long enough to braid. It really scares me. How do i go on with my life.? PS. we have a trip to the natural history musaum next week. PLEASE HELP ME DO NOT TURN YOUR BACK ON ME


love,
dinosaur deranged

Wow,i know this is a joke but ummm... but just incase this ever happens to anyone...u should go to the cops or dont go to the museaum.

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well as i was saying school starts in about 1 week and i'm really nervous because i like this guy there. and last semester we kinda had i fight and never talked since than. so i apologized and everything was fine but still we never really talked that much though. soo now i wanna be friends again and talk like we used to. can u give me some advice how to talk to him and make him less angry at me cause it seems to me like he does like me but is just upset so please help his friendship is really important to me!
thx

Well,it was all in the past. Sounds to me like hes the one who cant forget the fight. If you just be yourself and try to not make it akward around him, i think he would like that much better and would get his mind off everything that happened between you guys.Just try and start fresh. And never bring up the fight unless nesscary. =]

good luck

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i got a problem the guy i like is going to a different school this year than me cause i'm in 9th grade and he is in 10th. we've talked this summer but not much he asked me if i'd come a see him cause i do track at his new school i said yeah. the problem is i miss him so much and i'm scared he'll get another chick. How do i keep him?

I know how you feel. Because i feel the same way.haha. I know it hurts a lot to think about but if he really likes you, everything will be fine. If you are really in love with this guy maybe you should tell him just so that he knows and can think about it. Dont act too clingy,[ i know its hard not to sometimes]but still try and let him know that he really is special to you.
try that.

good luck =]

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well me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 6 months im sure hes the one i want to spend forever with. But theres only one problem, i feel terrible all the time, i mean when we fight i always feel like its my fault,when he talks to other girls and i tell myself there just his friends it still makes me feel horrible,and even little things if like he doesnt say bye b4 hanging up the phone and i dont want this terrible feeling to go on. any advice on if this is normal, and how to fix it.
anything is apreciated

I have felt this way before with my boyfriends. I would worry about the stupidest little things and would sometimes accually not be able to sleep. Sometimes this can be serious and you might want to talk to someone about it. You might be suffering from terriable anexity or OCD. I have these both and it sounds to me like you might also. If it gets worse, dont be afraid to ask for more advice or ask to talk to a school conslcer. =]

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Hey-
I really love my girlfriend and she loves me too
the problem is that we haven't seen each other lately- but that's not the problem
the problem is- I want to kiss her (not make out just kiss on the lips) but I'm not sure how to come across it
Is there something I can say to hint that I want to kiss her? please help

-premature kisser

Whatever you do dont ask her "can i kiss you". That really kills the mood. Just slowly go in for the kiss maybe after just touching each other or laughin about something.Maybe just grab her hand and look her in the eyes and most likely she'll get the hint. :-)

good luck! =]

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i am a fourteen year old girl.
here's the deal. i like this guy (who i have talked to and he knows i like him and blah, blah, blah) he said that he didn't want a relationship because of what his cousin said.
but his ex girlfriend said that he was too clingy. that's why she broke up with him. and one of my absolute best friends is his ex ,ex girlfriend. and she also said he was too clingy.
i am going to talk to him monday and tell him that he can keep his girlfriends because he is too clingy, but i would still except him even though he has a clinging problem.

do you think that is a good idea? should i change anything or what else should i do? is he one of those guys who aren't worth it?
thanks to who answers this question.

It is alright for a guy to be clingy.If you just nicely tell him how you are feeling and he listens he is worth it. Dont worry about what his other girlfriends say. Even if it might be true. Just go out with him and see if everything works out. And if it doesnt just let him know how youre feeling and if it really has to come down to it you might have to let him go. Sooner or later he will get why girls break up with him and you might even be doing him a favor by sticking with him/ excepting him,like you said, for who is he.=]

good luck! :-)

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okay so this guy thinks that i have kissed a guy before. i havent. he is much more experienced then i am sexually. will he know that i havent kissed someone before when we do kiss. should i let him make the first move and do the kissing. i want to be a good kisser. any tips would be great. and i know that i shouldnt lie to him. but. i already have. so any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you

This same thing has happened to me before. It really depends on what kind of guy he is. Maybe you could just be like ..."heyy i really havent kissed anyone and was afriad to tell you..." and just laugh about it, most likely he will laugh too. But if you really dont wanna do that there are a lot of great websites out that you help you be a good kisser like Virtualkiss.com and just go ot google and type in Kissing Tips and those websites really do help. Hate to say it but most people who have kissed before/made out will know if you are experianced or not.

just go to those websites and i think you will be fine.=]

good luck!!:-)

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