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well I've asked many questions on here about me and my bf. I'm 14 and so is my Bf. he asks like a kid sometimes (b/c of siblings and he had cancer.) He hasnt made a move at all! we barely ever kiss, and when we do its a peck on the lips, we do hug, and we've only held hands once in the 10-11 months we've been going out. school starts this coming week, and my friends keep saying I have to make a move, because he doesnt! i've gotten advice that says he may be afraid to make a move, like I am.
What are some signs i can used to tell if he still likes me? or should I wait and hold hands and kiss him and see what happens??? I'm really afraid to make any move! Hes my first bf!!! what do you think I should do???
thanks in advance! (link)
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wow, i know exactly how you feel.
heres my help:
if youre at a movie for example, and his hand is on his knee closest to you or relativly close to you, he wants to hold your hand.
if he keeps looking at you, then glancing at your lips, he wants to kiss you.
maybe he's thinking the same thing you are.
i know its hard, but make the move. go for it, be a go getter! :) best of luck!
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AHHH!!
please helpp.
okayy this is going to be kinda longg but sum1 please please please help mee
i like this guy and ive liked him for a while
he told me when we 1st became friends he didnt go out with freshman
and i respected that
so i waited until the end of the year
and nothing happened
but he kept flirting with me constantly..i mean like unclip my bra in the middle of class, kick my chair, always whipser stuff to me ( we have close last names so we sat close to each other)
and we would hang out everyday and when we hung out he would lay on me ( ex. my boobs)
and we would watch scary movies and cuddle
and he would call me everynight (school nights) and we would talk for like 3 or 4 hours until like 2 in the morning
but anywayy..thats the info you sorta need to know
just recently i told him i liked him and i asked how he felt back..he totally changed the subject and i asked him again and he signed off (i did this online) but the 2nd time he calls me later and asks me to sneak out with him...i didnt go.
so finally i bugged him so much and i got an answer..
he told me he liked me but prolly nuthings gunna happen between us and i was crushed and im told him i was confused cuz he "likes me alot" but "probably nothings going to happen becuase he cant predict the future"
and i cried for about a week
i really think i love this guy
and you know i wasnt letting him hold me back i hooked up with this other guy and he found out
he was CRUSHED. he was so mad he brought a bat the next time he knew i was with him
and then he told me he didnt want to ask me out becuase he "didnt want to ruin our friendshp"
and my couin whos 30 ( i talked to her about this)
told me thats a bunch of sh*#%
and she said to see is he relle likes me..dont im him..call him ..hang out with him and if he realizes it then hell do something
so it was abotu 2 weeks and i get a random im "hi i miss you =["
so she told me that he just likes to be liked and now that im showing him i dont care hes realizing like oh sh*% maybe shes moving on
but grrr i like him soo much
and i dont know what to do
pleasee shud i im him?
does he like me?
im soo sorry this is so long by the way
but please,,, HELPP!!
thanksss in advance !! (link)
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first off, i would talk to him about it...and i dont mean on aim or im...i mean face to face. because face to face means so much more, and he will probably be more open to you knowing that its just you & him (he might think its a joke or someone is near you reading your convo with him over the interent) but when you talk face to face everything meas so much more.
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I feel stupid saying this, but i get so nervous when im about to kiss a boy, ive only kissed 2 guys in my life, this 8th grade year.
Early in the winter, i made out with my boyfriend for about, 5 mins, we made out about 6 times that night, but that was my first kiss!
and a few months after we broke up, i kissed a guy for the heck of it, we were all over eachother, like sitting on eachothers lap, hugging, holding hands, then my friends dared me to kiss him, infront of everyone, and i did..
for some reason, i get so nervous! and i cant kiss infront of people, i hate the feeling that everyone is watching me.. i mean im outgoing and everything, self conscious, but i cant kiss for my life! (link)
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i dont know how much help im going to be, but i kinda know how you feel.
like when youre around just him its totally differnt than it is when you're in front of all youre friends. trust me when i say this is completly normal. im very outgoing, like very very very outgoing...but ive never kissed anyone in my whole life. & i know the feeling that everyone is watching you...its just like you want to hide away & just be with that special one....but give it time...it'll come more natural & before you know it, youll be kissing in front of crowds! :)
im sorry if i was no help, best of luck!
-chelle
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