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Q: well whenever this kid i like, matt, stands near me or walks by i always feel like i have to be talking to one of my friends. what does this mean?
i think i kinda know what you mean...

you want to be around your friends when you crush is around because you feel safe around your friends and you can talk to them just about anything while you get nervous around your crush and think you will say something stupid in front of him. Its like your friends will be there to comfort you while you are talking to your crush.

it means that you like this guy are are afraid to talk to him alone. So you try to be around your friends when you talk to him.

there is nothing wrong with that... I promise!


good luck!

♥ ashleyanne

Q: is it stupid for me to want to impress a guy by wearing a skirt and do my hair good? i mean i really like him and i really wanna impress him. also, do u know of anything else i can do to impress him?
that is NOT stupid! (believe me... we have all done it) but just don't act like your trying TOO hard or it will be obvious. Its ok to dress cute but act like its no big deal! don't be OVERLY willing to talk to him!

you can try finding something common between you and talk about that! You could even try doing that thing that you have in common together! (like sports...etc.)

good luck!

♥ ashleyanne

Q: Sometimes when a girl likes a guy a lot, she becomes dumb around him and can't think of anything to say. Well, I'm like that. I'm too nervous to say anything, I never talk to him unless he talks to me... I think he has a crush on me, cause I really never noticed him until he started talking to me . And I developed a crush on him .
The problem is that everyone's telling me
"dont walk up to him, people will start talking"
That's one of the reasons I'm too nervous to talk to him!
When is the perfect time to talk to a guy you like? should I start saying hi to him instead of waiting for him to say hi to me? never really say hi to him, he always does and I reply.
Please dont delete this question, I need the advice. I rate of course.
Well maybe you could chat with him like on AIM or something. It is a really easy way to talk to someone without feeling dumb. Also who cares if people are talking... let them talk! It doesn't matter what other people think and if you want to talk to him enough then silly little girls shouldn't stand in the way between you and your love life!
About the nervousness thing... you just need to find something that you both have in common. Maybe if you have any classes together then you could talk about how hard the test was or maybe even have a study group at someone's house to get to know them better. If none of that applys then just be brave and start talking to him!

good luck :-)

♥ashleyanne

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