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I am a 15 year old girl and I am currently in a "relationship" with a guy who is the same age. We met from one of our classes, and he never talked to me, but a couple of months ago he messaged me on facebook, and things got pretty intense. We talked 24/7 and he said the most amazing sweet things. He's really deep and we had this crazy connection on facebook, we had tons in common, and shared a lot of personal things. However, we didn't talk at all in person; we were too nervous. But finally we got over it a little bit and decided to be officially dating about a week or so ago. But whenever we talk I'm always carrying the whole conversation because he doesn't say anything, he's really tense and awkward even though he is a REALLY outgoing guy with everyone else. Guys mess around and flirt with me all the time and for the most part, it can be pretty fun, and that's what I want from him. It's like in person the only guy that doesn't make me laugh is my boyfriend. So I've sort of been avoiding him for a few days because I don't really like our relationship, but then he sent me this:
"Being around youis like being a man who just won the lottery twice, it's like when you wake up and the sun is shining through your window and you know it is gonna be a great day, it's like a warm cup of cider on a chilly day. But then I realize that I haven't won the lottery, or any of that, but that I am with you and I think, I am so much luckier than a man who won the lottery. I have noticed that until we met, I wasn't happy. I tricked myself into believing I was, but the happiness I am feeling now that I have you is more than one could ever ask for. Your beauty is so overwhelming I honestly feel like I'm under some sort of spell when I'm with you. Your shyness is really adorable and you are just amazing. I am glad you are mine"
This is a pretty usual thing with him, so it makes it really hard to break up with someone who feels this way about me. I still do really like him, and I want to continue talking to him, but I don't think we work as a couple, the pressure is making him more nervous and every time we are together its painfully awkward. I just think its more stress than it's worth. So my question is, how do I end things and still keep a friendship with him? (link)
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you just said it your self sweety.. tell him how you feel and you dont think hes ready and tell him hes a nice guy and he says the sweetiest things to you but he cant do it in person.. ask him if he could try and work on that then you guys could try a relationship another time but to keep you guys together you think its best to be friends...
but.. other guys may flirt with you for all the wrong reasons so be carefull
good luck
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18/f
Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up a couple days ago. He hasn't been happy for the past month so as a result, he didn't treat me right.
We were together for about 2 years. I just don't know how to handle it. Every guy I ever dated, I broke up with them. So when he broke up with me and didn't seem to care, I felt really hurt.
I haven't told my dad yet. They were really close and my dad was so supportive of us dating. So I know he'll have a lot of questions that I can't answer. It just meant a lot to me that I had a guy my dad loved.
With my previous break ups I was in school. I could easily move on because I had friends around and things to keep me busy. But I graduated last year and most of my friends moved. The only ones left are the ones that are best friends with my ex.
I'm pretty much being sad at home. I don't have a car and I went to school for a semester last year out of state but I'm currently not in school..and obviously it's summer.
I'm dealing with the break up the wrong way.
I've never learned how to be alone. Throughout my whole high school experience, I always had a guy. I never realized I was one of those girls until I reflected and noticed I spent only two weeks alone between my break ups without talking to a guy at all.
Most people have told me to just go out and have fun. I have one friend who I go to on Sunday nights because that's the day she doesn't work. So that's my friend time.
I spend a lot of time home alone. My dad works and both my mother and my brother are in rehab.
I guess my question is, how do I handle this by myself? What can I do at home to keep me busy?
Thank you so much. (link)
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k its nothing easy about break ups.. and you been with this person for two year so im pretty sure the word love was used soo the best thing to do is give space.. not too long but let him now how you feel tell him you love him and hes the most important thing in your life let him know you both make mistakes and the stupidest and biggest mistake will be to let him go.. but most of all you have to realize that the little things you both do will get to the other and a relationship has problems but if you cant work threw them then someone is not doing their part little things big things could end a relationship but little things could keep then going so look at both sides and tell him how you and him should work towards changing.. if he loves you he wouldnt leave he will come back.. if not life dont stop here that just means its someone better out there for you.. wish you the best
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Ok so im 14/f and ive liked this guy who I will call sam since july 2012 so like 11 months pretty much. Weve had a really complicated past but we have become great friends and now we kinda flirt like alot and stuff. Hes 13 but I treat him as if hes the same age as me. Tomorrow we have planned and arranged to hangout for a bit. Im kinda super nervous because we havent hungout since october but even in october nothing happened (we only hugged and held hands) and we were with 2 other people. So he has told me that hes gunna kiss/ makeout with me and he wants to. I want to aswell but im so nervous that I might spaz and pull away. Im so nervous that ive been feeling sick and crying. I really like him and I dont wanna fuck anything up. Hes my best guy friend and weve never hungout alone. Im so scared. Ive kissed and madeout with other guys but ive never felt this way. What can I do to calm down and what is your input on this? (link)
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ok ive felt this way before as well but if you really like this guy dont just think about a kiss see if he want to be in a relationship with you because most of the time at this age they just want to kiss you and call it that so be carefull... with the nervous part its ok hes most likely as nervous as you are so just flow with it dont go to fast and make sure he wants the same as you ok... wish the best
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I am a 67 year old British male. A long term relationship (some 30 years) with a lady has recently ended. This has left me feeling very down and lonely.We were never great ones for joining things (me more so than her) so I am at a bit of loss as to best way to get out in the world again, meet new friends and have a social life.
What are good ways of making new friends/social life for someone my age. Does volunteering help (link)
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maybe this women you were in a relationship with was not your age.. try going out to a place where people are more in your age range and mingo hope i helped
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