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Okay this woman jodie says i am really pretty and wants me to date her son. She says i have a good personality and i am a truly beautiful girl, and thinks that i would be a good match for her son sterling. But the problem is i live in KY n he lives in IN. So the conversation kinda fell off in the distance. But the thing is i really wanna go on a date with her son the next time im there. But how do i say it without sounding desperate, or being too obvious?? thanks

Thanks for the question :)
Next time you see him, if you are in his town, ask him to show you around. Or you can ask him if he wants to hang out, like go see a movie, go to the mall, get something to eat. You won't sound desperate. If he says "no" just be really cool with it. Or joke around and say "Well do you have another friend I can hang out with?" You won't be too obvious.
Good luck, let me know how it works out ;)
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this story is kinda complicated, but i dont know what to do.
the guy that i like, who is one of my best frenz, said that he has an issue wit alot of my close girl frenz, and that they get on his nerves.
bt i neva had a clue, until he told me to my face. i was rilli upset, and the thing is...
i think he likes me....
and i like him too....
but i dont want there to be an issue between him and my friends if we go out...

i love my girl frenz nd him too. i mean they are my best frenz.
ugh...wat do i do??????

I am in a similar situation. But you aren't sure if he likes you, so you are okay for now.
If and when he asks you out, its okay for you to say yes. You like him, he likes you. If he really likes you, he'll get over the fact that he hates your "frenz" (please spell friends right next time)to be with you. Also, you don't have to hang out with your girl friends and him at the same time.
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13/f
k, well. i dated this guy and we had a really serious relationship; like to the point that i thought i acctually loved him, and im only in 8th grade, so i know i couldnt have been. but, we dated for almost a year and now ever since that i can't find someone to math with what we had. i mean, i really like this one guy but well its complicated. but he doesnt want to date, but i feel im ready for a relationship. and like, for a couple months now i feel kind of.. eh. un social? and i don't flirt as much as i used to. and i mean, im not saying i want a relationship with someone becase i flirted with them, and i know that if i want a good relationship i need to find someone that likes me for me and blah blah blah; ive heard it. but i mean, how could i flirt without being slutty but also being kind of serious. like, i need alot of options. like, things i could say things i could do. but, i also want to have fun doing it and not drive the guys away.
anything will help.

I think that because you are only 13, you shouldn't be worried about relationships, but that's my opinion.
So what you are asking is ways to flirt, right?
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/19

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