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Hey! The most important things in my life are: boys, friends, family, having fun, music, dancing, photograhpy, writing, ect.
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Its a long story but I'll just ask my question.
this guy I liked told me that he used to like me, but he talks to me about the girl he likes now and asks me if she likes him, well when he told me he used to like me I almost said something. but then he said "but then I thought that could never happen" AND YES IT DEF. COULD!! so what can I do OTHER than the obvious, which is telling him how I feel, which I will do if worst comes to worst.
THANKS!
well there is a chance that he could like you again if he likeed you before. Just flirt with him and be really nice and just be yourself and do what you did before. But hurry before he hooks up with the other girl. and if you dont want to tell him how you feel now, just wait till you get signs that he likes you again and then tell him or hint it.
hope this helped.
Not that this needs to be figured out like, now, but I figured I'd ask you guys for your opinions. I'm 18/f, he's 20/m if it matters.
There's a dance coming up here, and I want to go, because I love dances - they're fun, and an excuse for me to get overdressed, lol.
The problem is my boyfriend really isn't much of a dancer. I don't really want to go alone. I hinted to him that there was a dance and my friend was trying to convince me to go, but he didn't really say anything on the subject.
So - I guess what I really wanna know is if I should ask him to come with me anyway, even though he doesn't really like dances, or if I should just go alone.
Please lay off the chatspeak. If I have to read your answer twice to understand it, you're not getting a five.
ask him.
Recently me(14f) and my boyfriend(15m) broke up. We had plans to go to homecoming together, and everything so now that we are broken up I pretty much have NO date for homecoming, I do know a few people that like me... But I don't think any of them would want to go to homecoming on such short notice, but my friend wants me to go with their (her and her boyfriend) group of people including his extremely hot single brother, that thinks i am "Beautifully Stunning" so do i just see if he wants to go with me or sit this homecoming out? Please help xo
you should go with him! if not then try to find a single guy/girl friend and just go with them as friends if they dont have a date!
do guys like it when gurls ask them out if u ant a guy dont answer ok thnx i rate !
It depends on the guy but one of my guy friends says he thinks that they are just deseprate unless its a really awesome girl. i think my that he means a girl he is already good friends with.
but some guys could like it. Cuz someone could like you but just be shy or scared of rejection.
(Im 15/F He's 15/M)
My friend asked the guy I like does he know me (just to start the convo then she was planning to go further in on what you think of her etc...)well he said no which I know is a lie because we went to the same elementary school, we rode the same bus for three years and we have a class together this year. Plus we talked when were younger (we are sophomores now we talked in 7th and 8th grade.) but when he found out that I found out he liked me and I started showing I liked him back too we became distant. Then in 9th grade we didn't talk at all just he always stared at me and I did the same to him just not as much. Last year I told him I liked him he avoided me at first but then he seemed cool with it but it never went farther. This year he showed me he still likes me by always staring at me and him and friends always pass by where me and my friends are his friends would try to make him talk to me and for example like picture day him and his friend were doing all this stuff trying to make me smile when i was taking my picture it was so obvious they were so loud ... and when we were in line his friend kept trying to push him into me. So why would he say he doesn't know me? Was he just scared that she was going to ask him does he like me or something? Or is this his way of telling me that he wants to move on so leave him alone?
Sorry it's SO LONG. Please no smart ass answers!!! Talking to him about it could work but I wouldn't know how to start talking to him again or even bring it up because that's how we stopped talking in the first place.THANKS in advance.
He probably was just embarrased to tell your friend he likes you. and he knew what she was doing and didn't wnat her to go any further with it.
My friend asked this guy what he thought aboout me, and he wouldn't answer her, he just tried to get away from her.
Does this mean he doesn't like me?
He'd probably tell your friend if he liked you just as a friend or not at all, unless he is like super nice. so It might be that he likes you but is embarrased to tell anyone the same reason that your friend talked to him instead of you and its pretty darn obvious what your friend's intentions were.
i like this guy tuckermen he now cause i tell him i love him and he laughs but i kno he doesnt like me should i try to stop likeing him to find someone else or keep trying to crack him .im 13 girl
Definalty move on to someone else.
ok so theres this boy , and he found out that i liked him and before we were all cool and everything then he acted different around me after he found out. When my friends talk to him about me , the'll be like you know you like her and stuff like that and he will just smile thats it. he wont say and thing just simle .. does he like me ? or is he thinking EW I HATE HER !
PS - my friend was like do u think shes cute and he said yeah , so does he or hes just trying to be nice ?
I REALLY WANT HIM TO LIKE ME + WHAT ARE SOME THING I CAN DO
Depends on what kind of guy he is. If he is just a really nice guy, then he might just being nice when he smiles and says your cute. Sounds like he likes you, cuz if he didn't he would most likely deny it when your friends say that to him.
There is this guy I really like. I've liked him for a while. I realized that he would never really like me back but I still like him a lot. We don't really talk but he says hi and knows my name and stuff which is a start. I want a guy to tell me what girls need to do for you to notice them and what I should do. girls tell me what you would to to get him to notice you in a more that friends way.
Flirt with him, be outgoing, you dont really have anything to lose, do something that will make him remember you, in a good way ofcourse! Just talk to him and smile, and be sweet. Make him a friend first! If he dones't like you more than that then atleast you made a new friend, and who knows what could happen as you get to know him better..
ok, i know this guy that i believe likes me, and my friend, well she doesnt like him (he used to like her, and she was always like ew) and i sort of like him, but if i go out with him, im afraid of what my friend might say, im afraid that she would be like ew. why are you going out with him? i mean, i want to do what i want, but if that means half losing a friend, im not sure what i want. please help..
a good friend would not care who you were going out with.
ok im 15/F. i knew this guy who was IN LOVE(like almost obsessed) with me, and a week later, hes not. hes over me, and now i think he likes someone else. was he just joking the whole time, or did he really LOVE me? and to fill you in.. i liked him back but was to afraid to show that i did. (i know, wrong move to make..)
He didn't LOVE you but he probably still liked you. When guys think girls aren't intrested they will move on. If you still like him flirt with him a little more. It's best to show a guy you like him than to wait for him. trust me..
and you dont have to tell him you like him, you can do little things to show him!
ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months,and we never go anywhere, and thats because of me, i just dont feel right around him but i like him and all, and im pretty sure he likes me more then i like him, and in the past couple of days, well ive been talking to this boy johnny, and hes absouloutly my type, and i told him i liked him and he said liked me back, he said he would wait till me and my boyfriend brake up, but i like my boyfriend to!, so i dont know what to do cause he likes me so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i like him and johnny, please help im stuck
who do you like more? sounds like you like Johnny more. Tell your boyfriend you don't think it's working out, tell him that you guys never go anywhere, and just tell him how you feel. then go for johnny, if thats what you want. If not just wait till you and your boyfriend breaks up with you.
Ok, this guy I have liked forever told me somethings last night i confused me a bit. Well to start things off, we went to a dance at our school. When i got home i talked to him on AIM. He said he really screwed things up when it came to this he liked. He said that he thought she kept eyeing him throughout the whole thing. Which i was doing. Then he said that he never asked her to dance but he could tell that she wanted to...but he never had enought courage...and i never danced with him, but i deff. wanted to. But the wierd part was he never told me who it was...he refused, he usually always gives me a name of the he likes...so im wondering if its me this time. Please help me...i rate high
It probably is you, ask him out!
the other day this guy i fancy asked me to go out with him so obviosly i said yes.....the thing is although he "asked me out" but i dont think we will ever actually go out to places....so i dont know if theres is any point in the relationship....HELP PLEASE!!!!!
thanx
Kim xxxx
call him up and ask him if he wants to go to the movies or invite him to your house.
my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???
you can't. :)
I have a new boyfriend at university, but I find myself keeping this news from my friends at home because I don't want it to get back to my ex-boyfriend, becase he is in a very fragile place at the moment and it would really hurt him to find out that I've moved on to somebody else. What I'm trying to do is protect my ex-boyfriend, because I still care about him and don't want to hurt him any more than is necessary, but I feel bad for misleading him and my other friends. Would it be better to just come clean, even if it hurts him in the short term, or should I wait until he's in a better place until I break the news?
You should tell him and your friends. Maybe not right away, but soon. Even though you and your EX still care about eachother, you are not together anymore, so you don't have to hide it from him.
There's this guy that I'm going out with, and he likes me alot, and I like him too. However, I know this girl who is not really my friend but sits at our table at lunch, and she isn't very pretty. Anyways, this girl and my boyfriend have a class together, and my friend told me later that the girl was flirting with my boy! She would ask him in a fakishly sweet voice if she could borrow something or other, etc. She also says hi to him whenever she sees him. My boyfriend doesn't like her at all and always ignores her whenever he can. What can I do to stop her from flirting with my guy?
If he doens't like her than there is nothing to be worried about. So don't be jealous.