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ok im 14 1/2 ok and theres this awesome guy at my school and i mean i like him and i think he likes me i mean he goes to church and everything job but the thing is he's 17 and ive heard rumors saying that guys make bets and crap on the freshmen to see how fast they can get into there pants i mean im not going to do anything like that but i don't want to be apart of a cruel joke so should i take the chance and go out with him or no.................. (link)
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You can go out with him, but that's no reason to sleep with him.
It is a big decision to sleep with someone and should only be with someone who really cares about you/loves you. If you feel that you might be taken advantage of make sure that you go somewhere public, tell your parents where you are, when you'll be back etc. Get him to pick you up from home?
If this guy is soooo great he will respect you and take time to get to know you first.
14 1/2 is very young to even be thinking about sex, I waited until it was legal and I was with a guy who really loved me. I didn't sleep with him for six months, just kissed and stuff and I think that it was the best decision I ever made, because when we did make love it was REALLY special, like it should be.
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ok im the girl who asked this ? ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing???
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ok now heres the thing i just found out from one of my bestest friends in the world i mean she wouldn't lie to me about anything ok that my ex made out with this chick on a chorus trip and it was in florida when it happened and what not but when i confronted him about it he says what happens somewhere else stays there im just wonder if thats RIGHT in any kind of way.......becuz he made me feel guilty for just talking to another guy and he effin made out with another chick so do you think thats right........
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You did the right thing, he is totally immature and out of order.
Quite often when someone is in the wrong they become very defensive because they can't take responsibility for what they've done and try and turn the blame on to someone else, in this case you.
Being honest is always the best policy, well done.
You are worth more and he has lots more growing up to do. Keep your standards high and keep telling the truth.
I'm also proud of you for recognising that sex is a big thing and should only take place when you feel ready.
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