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I'm in 7th grade and have blonde hair and green eyes. I live in Georgia.
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Member Since: December 18, 2006
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that you have no classes with, barley see, and how do you make a girl laugh? and please dont say tell a story or something it doesn't work. (link)
Compliments! Try to get her attention! Tell her a joke to her not to her friend that is standing right by her. Girls laugh a lot!


15/f
My ex and I went out for 11 months. I really thought I loved him but then one morning I woke up and realized I didn't even like him anymore. So I dumped him. That was way back in June. I'm pretty that he still likes me. Now I like him again and he's all I think about. Right after I dumped him I realized how annoying and how mean he was so I don't want to get involved with him again. I really need a good way to get over him and get him outta my mind. (link)
I had the same problem a few monthes ago. Try finding a new guy, celebrity crushes, or talking about cute guys with your friends. Hope that helps.


I'm 17 and i have had the same boyfriend for 2 yrs. and dont get me wrong i love him with my whole life. but yesterday i went to pick him up at his dads(2 1/2) hours away. he had been gone fri.-sun. and when we got back to my house we were just sittin watchin tv and i knew he had a project to finish for school so he asked me later if he could use my computer and he said yes. but after he came back down i had already fallen asleep and he woke me up and said bye in a kinda pissed of tone than gave me a kiss. this morning he called and he noticed what time it was and shouted "Fuck" and hung up? so i didnt call him back. well at school i kind of avoided him and then after school i went to his house and he was fine and everything????? he gets pissed over little things. and i dont know what to do...i feel childish avoiding him but i've talked about it to him and (you know how guys are) it always turns out to be my fault some how, or he always comes back at me with some way i get mad at him. he can always manipulate me into thinkin it really was my fault but then i think about it and then i realize it really isnt. someone please help me i cant take it any more. and please dont suggest breaking up with him or talking to him it doesnt work...and if i can talk to him help me think of something to say to him to make him realize what hes doing.(this sort of thing happens all of the time) (link)
Make note that it's not your fault. You haven't done anything wrong. You are trying your hardest to please your boyfriend but he just is getting angry. Try to talk to him. Say "I'm trying to help you like when ... but you just get mad. Why is that?" If he gets mad and keeps minipulating you maybe he's not the guy for you. Because every girl deserves ab oyfriend that treats her like she wants to be treated. If he asks you if you can do something for him then you should say no because thats not your job its his. Hope I helped.


13/f

Okay well then.. im beginning to think that my boyfriend is likin` this other girl.. My boyfriend's name is john, and the other girl is named Lily. They're in the same group (hang out group) they hang out w/ the same people somethin` called the "JAW 4L'S." and Lily is John's bestfriend's ex girlfriend. Winston (johns bestfriend) & john act all nice to lily. Lily's nick name is "lee lur" on her myspace or whatever.. but shes also my friend too.. not js the JAW 4L's. She got into his myspace and "hacked" him or whatever you call it.. and she put on his heading "i love lee lur :]" He's been actin` strange lately.. and then he told lily that he loved her.. (but im not if he meant it.. or as a friend), shes number one of his top, im not sure if she put her there, or he did it, and js last night, he told me that he wasnt gonna call me that night... im soo worried out of my mind.. =T


advice ? (link)
Try talking to Lily. Ask her if she likes him and tell her that it doesnt matter to you if she likes him. Also try talking to John ask him if he still likes you. Communication is the key. But dont go to Lily or John's friends and ask because they will probibly tell Lily&John that you were talking about them. Hope that helps.


okay.. soo theres this boy [ lets call him bob ] alright well i went out with bob 2 years ago from like 9 months.. i dont talk to him anymore.. but i think im starting to like him again.. people tell me.. how can u like him if u never talk to him. but i see his personality on how he acts to his friends and other people and stuff.. he was so sweet but the reason he broke up w/ me was that i heard he thought i didnt like him or something? but neways.. he sits in front of me in one of my classes and his friend talks to me.. but
i dont know what to do i really want to start talking to him again..

he doesnt have aim;msn;myspace;xanga;ect. my friends talk to him and everything and when im with them but nobody knows i kinda like him again so im not sure what to do cause i dont want him to know that i like him again i just really need some help

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btw.. 14/f (link)
Try saying hi to him when you get a chance then slowly start talking to him and see if he is even interested in you. If he is then try becoming friends first to see how he acts around other people. But if he isn't try moving on.




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