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Q: i have a great friend...(but i know never to start to like a freind)but its hard not too.I love him(not like that) .HE so nice and sweet and things have happened.....were not like friends that do things after school we do little things in school .i know i like him not that i know he likes me but im hapy around him and just today he asked me to sit with him and theres a lot of spaces on the bus i was really happy about it and he acted shy..?i dont know why i acted shy too and i knew i was. do i like him ????????????????i think i do
Seems to me you guys are really good friends and you could very eaisaly have a tiny crush on him but i wouldn't read to far into it. He could have been acting shy but he could have also been tired and you too lol (i have made that mistake). But if it seems to be happening alot (theese shy moments) then you guys might deffinately have somthing
hope i helped
Becca

Q: Well I like this guy Adam, me him and a bunch of other people went to see When a stranger calls and threw the whole movie we were flirting and you know the rest. Well Carly, the person who organzied the little get together. Well her mom came and she has a van it was really cramped up front so, a couple people (Me, Adam, 4 other friends) moved to the back and we laid down because Carly`s mom had a old van and it was able to turn the back into a bed so we did that. I was tired so I used Adam as a pillow and then I got up to fix my shoe (I had sandles on) and then I laid back down and he put his arm around my waist. & from about 11pm-2am we sat there kissing, holding hands so forth. Then I was confused because I didnt know he liked me like that so I called him and he said we should keep that to ourselves so I was like okay. Then he asked out Danielle ( a good friend of mine, she didnt go to the movies ) and I was lost because he just held my hand and kissed me then asked out my best friend. She hasnt said yes or no yet, but I really want him. I dont know how to get him to be mine and not hers. Please help !
Well seems to me like this guys is HUGE player girl lol. And the fact that he said for you to keep it to yourself worries me. Kinda like a one night stand. I understand how you must feel though. I mean if he is a great guy than i'm sure a bunch of people would like him. But ya know seems to me like he kinda used you and personaly i wouldn't like him very much after that lol.
I hope i helped
Becca

Q: so me and my best friend thats a guy stated dated. about 2 months later i broke up with him because he wasn't that good of a boyfriend. me and him stopped talking for awhile after that. recently though me and him have become really tight again and ive started liking him a lot again everyone says you guys flirt so much but its just flirting and i dont know if i should wait to see what happens or what so any ideas on this?
Well the key thing is if he was a bad boyfriend i see no point in you going back to him. You deserve to be happy with who your with and not have a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. I think you should stay just good friends and if he seems to have changed and cares about you alot then go for but other wise i'd advise against it.
Hope i helped :D

Q: ok i am 13/f and i like this guy who is 16 i know there is an age difference but i don't care he is nice has a great personality and we have so many things in common see he doesn't know that i like him we are realy really good friends and if i tell him i like him it mite screw up our friendship cause he is my neighbor i see him like everyday but i donno if he likes me he flirts wit me but i dono mixed signals see i was wondering if i should tell him or not and if so how could i tell him please help
Hi there i'm becca i'm 14. Well 3 years is quite the bit of an age difference but i think it's rediculous that people think i's soo gross. I mean when your 25 and he's 28 it seems like no difference at all. I think you should tell him. Now if he's a mature sweet guy then he'll tell you wha he feels and won't be mean about it. So tell him up front and see what happens.
hope i helped :D

Q: I really like this guy.
But ehre's the prob.
I'm in 8th grade, he's kinda in 6th.
He's also my best friend's cousin!
She dosen't care, but the age differece is kinda a lot.
He's not a little loseror anything, he's like mature and i like him.
What should I do?
rates 5's
thanks if you help!
Cool i'm in grade 8 too :). Ya know everyone in our grade thinks it's like sick to go out with someone 2 years younger or older than you. But think about it when your 25 and there 23 seriously i see absolutly nooo difference and it's tottaly social acceptable. So if u really like this guy and he makes you happy i don't see why you shouldn't go for
hope i helped :D

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hi i'm rebecca i'm 14 and i love giving advice and gettin it i'm a fun loving sporty girl and can somties be really girly. Thanks everyone have agood day :D

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