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I was going out with this boy for 2 months and I decided it was best we brake up and stay friends but when I broke up with him I thought he was going to doit and the same day we broke up he got together with his ex.When I found out I fell and started crying I still do cry about it when something reminds me of him I really want to stop and move on but I still see him at school and all I want to do it get with him again but I don't know what to do I miss him so much and I still care about him as much as I try to find a reason to hate him.Please help!!! (link)
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Find out if he is still seeing his ex and if not tell how you feel. Stop torturing yourself. If things don't work out then just take time and move on.
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I met up again with a boy I had been talking to online for a while an hadn't seen in a bit. He was totally ecstatic to see me! He gave me the best hug of my life and all. But ever since, our conversations have been duller and there are more gaps. He told me before we met that he was starting to really have a serious crush on me, and I felt so happy because I had liked him for a while. But I can't tell if I did anything wrong or anything. Is he losing interest in me? How can I tell if his crush is growing, shrinking, or not progressing? (link)
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Just ask him. Sometimes it can be exciting to talk and fantasise about someone you have never met, you build up the person in your mind. The reality can then become a let down, not because the people concerned are not nice and exciting on their own merit but because the fantasies and expectations have become too much. Talk to this guy and just ask outright, it's better to know than always wonder.
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16/f
me and my boyfriend recently broke up and my other guy friend says that the best way to "get over" a relationship is to rebound date. personally i don't think that's right because its leading the other person on, making them think that you like them when all you are doing is making the ex jealous or making yourself think about the ex. then my other guy friend (the one from above) calls me up and asks if i want to do something this weekend, and i say yeah because he is my friend. but later on during our conversation, he suddenly whispers really fast that i should go for the rebound dating. i know what he wants, but do you think that rebound dating is the best way to "get over" a previous relationship? thanks in advance.
signed
weirded out and conflustered (link)
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Everyone is different. Perhaps for this friend of yours rebound dating is the answer. Obviously for you it is not. It also depends on how serious you were with your ex and if there is really any way of getting back with him. Don't fool yourself, if it is over then accept it and try to move on. It will take time and it will hurt but this feeling will not last forever, believe me. Also does this guy friend of yours want to date you himself? If he does think clearly. First and foremost he is your friend and if you did date him and it did not work out things would always be awkward betwen you afterwards. Good luck and stay positive.
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17/F
Ok, so I lost my virginity to my boyfriend the friday before last. I love him more than anything. But the other day he told me that a couple weeks ago he got really drunk and ended up having sex with one of our girl friends who was there. He is really truly sorry. When he told me he was crying hysterically, and kept telling me that he made a mistake. And I knew he was really sorry and felt horrible. We spent a long time crying together but eventually we got through it. He told me everything that happened, and I forgave him. We're still together, but it seems like I can't trust him the same. It's like when I'm not there, I'm scared hes going to do something again. I don't know why I feel this way when I forgave him, and we're actually better than before. How can I get myself to trust him like I did before??
Thanks to anyone who answers. (link)
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Losing your virginity is one of the most important things to a girl and naturally when you do it is generally going to be with someone you trust and have real feelings for. Naturally you are upset and hurt that just after you gave your boyfriend this precious thing he sleeps with another friend. My advice to you would be to dump him. He doesn't respect you and drink is definitely NO EXCUSE. He only told you incase someone would tell you first. Believe me there are plenty more guys!!
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