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Okay so my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. His parents seem cool and everything but whenever he does something minor, like bad grade or didn't take out the trash they punish him by taking away his net privleges and therefore can't talk to me. IDK why this aggravates me because I guess I should be used to it. I know its the way they raise there kid but I'm frustrated, idk if its at them or him or myself, I just don't know anymore. All and any advice is great appreciates, thank you!

My boyfriends parents use to turn of his internet and i hated it because i couldnt talk to him. It was like they were punishing me too! I hated it, but theres really nothing you can do, i dont think they would be to happy if you told them how to raise there son. I know its frustating. Maybe tell your boyfriend to stop getting in trouble so you can talk! haha

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I know this Guy who ive Known for about 15 years now.
He was around alot during my Childhood years.!
Hes not to much older then iam.
He's a really good friend who i tell everything to.
He told me he wanted to be with me & that he was in love with me.

I dont know what to do!

If you think your into him too then tell him that.
If your not into him, tell him you think of him more as a friend, and you dont want to lose your friendship.
If your not sure how you feel, maybe try going on a date and see what happens.

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In 10th grade, I had just started dating my high school sweetheart. On a school trip, I noticed this other girl who I had heard about but never met. I knew right away that there was something about her that I had never seen before. I put it out of my mind though, being completely infatuated with my girlfriend at the time. Later that year, during the school musical, I got to know the girl from the trip (for clarity's sake, let's call her Jen). We got to know each other pretty well. I had some small feelings for her, but she was dating someone and I was dating someone. We continued to talk throughout high school. Then I graduated and went to college. She's two years younger than me, so she was still in high school. after the first semester of college, my girlfriend broke up with me. The first thing I thought about was Jen and how I could now possibly be with her, but by the time she broke up with her boyfriend, I had a new girlfriend. This has been the cycle ever since. We've grown apart now, but I still think about her all the time. There was only one two month period where both of us were single. She called me and asked me to stop by a mutual friends house to say hi. I did and we sat on the couch together and she would just stare right into my eyes while I was talking and all of her friends were trying to get us alone. I ended up leaving soon, but she texted me for the rest of the night talking about watching the stars and wishing I was there. That was a year and a half ago. After that, we were never that close again. We still say hi occasionally, but nothing meaningful. I'm going to see her soon and I can't get her out of my head. Did she have feelings for me? Was she just overly flirtatious? Was it all in my head? And, most importantly, if it wasn't in my head, could she possibly still feel the same? What should I do? It might sound crazy, but I really feel like I need to take a shot at this. Any advice?

You guys both seem to like each other. I say take a shot at it. Or else you will never know if you guys would have been good together or not.

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We’ve been engaged for 4 months. We’re both 19. All we do if fight (for about 7 months it’s been nothing really but fighting). He always says how he thinks my feelings have dropped for him. He says I’ve changed. He acts like he doesn’t trust me anymore. He always has me swear on our relationship that I’m being honest. We both have bad jealousy, trust, and anger issues. He has broken up with me twice now, once since we got engaged because I talked to a guy. Every time I know it’s because he's mad, but how can I convince him I never lie to him, I’m the same just more open and I haven't lost feelings for him? This is killing our relationship and if things don’t change soon I don’t know if we are going to make it.

Continue to try to work out your relationship, talk about your trust issues and other things. Maybe once you talk about it, things will get better. If nothing changes then i dont think its a good idea to get married to this guy unless you can stop fighting. Otherwise your going to have a very unhappy marriage.

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I know they say getting over one's first relationship is the hardest but it can definitely be done. Why do I feel that the only true way to get over a relationship is to find someone else? Even if it's not love in the beginning, it might be later. Though it is so wrong, why does it seem so right?
My ex broke it off with me because we lacked communication issues from the start. I had trust issues with him, as well. Being my first relationship, and not his, I was very picky about the way things were but I always thought honesty was the best policy. I am also going to move cities away from my home soon enough as well. What should I do? Sometimes I miss him like crazy and other times, I'm alright. We don't really talk as much, at all, or anything. I tried occupying my mind but sometimes, the pain keeps coming back.

I was so upset when me and my boyfriend broke up. I also thought finding someone new would help, I dont think its a problem to start dating someone new it will help you feel a little better probably not completly better but it might help. If it doesnt work out then keep searching for someone that you like better. Maybe try talking to your ex if you miss him alot, dont talk to him to much, maybe just ask him how hes doing, if your ment to be you will end up back together at some point.

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