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Hey,i really don't know what to say but im here to help...any questions any problems I can help believe me i've had my share of problems and I've learned alot of lessons by just listening and letting my feelings out...at the end of the day love yourself and help me help you :-)!!!!!!
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ok so... a guy really likes me. he never said anything but i can just tell cuz he keeps wanting to talk to me online and he's being really clingy. honestly i'm not that into him. now i've got rehearsals of a guitar show and he's going to be there but a guy i really like will also be there. i was hoping i can finally talk to this guy but what should i do so he wouldn't interfere and ruin my chance? i can tell him to stop liking me cuz he probably doesn't even know that i know. any ideas please?
well first of all if your doing anything to lead this guy on stop it!when he tries to talk to you you need to tell him how you feel not in a harsh way but just let him down easy and tell him your not that into him...:-)
P.S.you can tell him to stop liking you because if you dont want him to ruin your chances with the other guy you have to tell him...it will be very funny if he doesnt like you but embarassing:-)
Ok... I have a boyfriend and things are great except I really also like my best friend in so confused and need advice who do I pick I'm 14
First you really shouldn't be in a serious relationship because your still young you want should want to play the field and have fun...but you should tell your bestfriend and see what he says and then try it out good luck:-)
I am a 21 year old girl and I work with a gay man that is about 4 years older than me and is much higher up in the company (I work part time just for money on the side until I graduate in May). Before I begin I want to say that he hasn't done anything wrong--I am leaving the company in a week because I won't be able to work next semester so there's no issues with that.
We have met and talked several times. He has told me about his long term boyfriend (he calls his husband)every time we spoke. They recently broke up and we went out for a drink last night (started out friendly)--neither one of us was drunk the least bit. Long story short, we ended up sleeping together. Afterwards, he stayed over and we just talked and such.
The whole thing was so weird but I've always been attracted to him but I always knew he was gay. But now I know he's attracted to me in atleast some way. I've never had a "one night stand" before but for some I know he wasn't just using me. After everything happened, he had his arms around me, he kissed me on his way out, and we just had a great time together.
Also, HE IS THE ONLY MAN TO EVER GIVE ME AN ORGASM!! He finished pretty quickly (which is another reason I know he was really attracted to me--or atleast really enjoyed himself) but he did amaazzzing things afterwards which I was surprised about because he once said that he has never slept with a woman.
Anyhow, I really want to pursue this man but I'm not sure how and I have many fears. I feel as if he does have feelings for me but I also know he doesn't believe in being bi (so he has told me). So, I am very confused about last night. And if we do end up dating, I'm afraid that I will just be his crash test dummy to test if he is straight or gay. I don't even know how to bring it up to him. Please help!!
Get him by hisself and tell him you want to know the meaning of what happened and tell him your feelings.It's natural to be afraid of what he's going to say but you have to suck it up and put your feelings on the line.I mean you were going out on a limb even sleeping with him now its time to go out on a limb again...(feel free to inbox hope this helps):-)
16/f
My ex wants me back. Near enough fact-all the signs are there and he even meets up with me secretly in college and invites me out which I decline.
The thing is-we talk reely deeply about anything, like his exes, our parents, our worries.
The other day he asked me 'is there anyone interesting you?' so i said no. I asked him and he also said 'no', and then kept going on how theres 'no rush' and 'who knows what will happen' and 'i'd rather be with someone who i've known for years'.
So how do I ask him point blank whether he does actuslly wsnt me back-so i'm clear? Because tbh i can't keep meeting up with him and being so close if we're not together. I need any advice please :)
Dear how to ask him,
next time you see him or call him tell him you want dtr(define the relationship)so both of you guys can be on the same page...don't chicken out because your afraid of being rejected. The way I see it it looks like he wants to be back together with you...good luck:-)
18/f
I have a crush on this one kid and we flirt all the time but then sometimes he will act weird like he doesn't like me. I want to act hard to get but I don't know how. I'll be seeing him this weekend and I don't wanna fall into the trap of flirting with him and then him backing away. help please!!
When you see your crush be nice say hi and hold a convo with him for only 5 mins. maxium then say i'll be right back and go talk to your friends for a while.The key to playing hard to get is to still act like you like the person but to not be in their face all the time...give them space.:-)