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well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.

Do you think hes using me?

i dont think he is, but you might want to hang around him more and see if he asks for anything else. im actually going through the same thing right now. my bf seems too perfect and its always about me, and im just expecting any day for him to ask for something like a bj or sex or something of the sort, and i just dont know if he really cares for me or just wants to do me, maybe you could help me too! haha

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i have a bf that i like very much. but, we don't talk often. its the summer now so we don't get to see eachother very often and he doesn't come on instant messaging often either. he isn't really considerate, but he is very nice and funny. um, i guess i'm just worried if he really likes me or if he is just using me. i could call him, but he isn't usually home. i cant exactly tell him how i feel because i'm kind of shy. should i break up with him? or should i try to stay in this relationship and make it better?

you should talk to him. even though you are shy, you wont regret it. you will find out how he really feels. and the more you conquer your shyness the easier it will be other times. so just give it a try doll.

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ok, my bf thinks that i dont like him very much...but i dont know y. i mean i told him that that isnt the deal but he wont listen. he even asked advice on here that said "i think my gf is going to break up with me...but i dont know. i dont think she likes me that much. what should i do?"
can you belive that. i dont know how to get it through to him that i really really like him. how? any advice?

tell him to stop being emo and sex him up!

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