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I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm meeting this boy tomorrow, I know he likes me and I kinda like him too!
But my problem is that we have never met before or seen eachother in person. We have FaceTimed before and we've spoken on snapchat, we can usually keep the convocation going for a while. I know that I am very shy around boys, especially if I like them or if they like me. I'm not confident with the way I look even though he calls me 'beautiful' ect...
I'm really worried that he won't like me when he sees me, I've FaceTimed him but it was kind of awkward because we hadn't spoke before other than online... I know for sure that tomorrow i will be so nervous to the point I'll start feeling sick, it always happens! I broke up with my ex because I was too shy and I don't want this to ruin it. I want to be confident around him and I'm also worried that we will run out of things to talk about, he said to me that if I admit i like him back (I haven't said yet) he will kiss me and hug me, I'm not too sure about that! I want to but I'm soooo nervous!
I would go to my friends or family for help but I just don't know how to explain this..
Thank you! X (link)
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Oh my goodness! You remind me of my boyfriend and I we haven't met yet.. But don't worry you can never run out of things. But you can plan things to talk about beforehand that helps, then it will lead to other topics too. Most guys actually find it really cute and adorable when a girl is nervous and shy. Also about your looks you probably are really pretty but your just in the stage we all go through the insecurity one. You should wear your favorite outfit and hairstyle for it so your comfortable and you feel confident about your look. Also :) he already thinks your beautiful ! Don't feel nervous about your looks . And advice about trying to get over your shyness, well this is what I did to get over mine. I joined as many as clubs as possible and things with others to be more involved so I was forced to get over it. Also in some classes at my new school I would "fake" it till finally now I actually am confident. Lol I'm excited for you !
I really hope and wish you have a fantastic time!!:)
~Angie
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So me boyfriend and i of almost 2 years are nottogethher anymore. He broke up with me for the second timebecause he said he felt like we were friends with benefits because when we see each oter once a week we usually do somewhat sexual stuff that isnt sex. And his friends told him they didnt think we would work out cause his reason for getting back with me tthe first time wasnt strong rnough and the reason was that he thought we could work out. I called him right after the break up and he actually sat there listening to me. Then i texted him after the call asking him why he would do this. And then left it at no contact for two weeks then texted him saying i want to see him once more to see if those were his true feelings in person. He said no saying that hes clearing the bs off his life like i cleared the bs off my walls refering to a snapchat story inpostedd of my wall being free from his posters. Which is weird that hed be mad about me taking down his posters when he roke up with me!! Ad then he ignored my last text that day and so i waited a week more only to text him saying that i want to find closure and see him once more. And he ifnoreds me for two days so i wait and text him while he was online on facebook and simply said hi. And he still ifnoress me. My friend told me that hes not worth my time since he even broke up with me two times already!! But idk i still mosss him... Im like halfway out the door to moving on bht im just hesitating. What should i do to get him back permanantly or at the very least and most important get him to just let me see him in person one last time?! I aldo noticed that he always checks my snapchat story alll the time! But refuses to text me back (link)
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Okay first of all I want you to know I don’t want you to think I’m being hypocritical or what not. But listen, you sound like a faithful fun loving girlfriend. If he can’t see that and make the move himself to get you back then neither should you. I completely understand of you trying to get him back, but if you two were meant to be you guys would’ve worked out the other times...Don’t start back at square one girl. Listen to your friend he honestly isn’t worth your time. Guarantee you that you can and will do better. And the snapchat peaks he does, well he’s doing it so he can keep up with your life. NOT trying to insert himself in your life again. If he wanted the relationship as bad you do back then he would be replying and snapchatting you and planning time to see you, to try and figure things out. He’s not though now is he? He is trying to move on slow and steady, that's why he is ignoring you. He is trying to let go of the feelings you two shared. Missy you should do the same. I know you’re probably not going to be thrilled with my answer, but I’m trying to look out for what’s best for you. As an outsider I can tell a lot that you might be shoving to the side. And girl that feeling of missing him is gonna stay with you for awhile, if he was your "first love" Honestly my "first love" I’m still not even fully over yet and it’s been a year now! I have a boyfriend of my own now but those feeling and memories my ex and I shared will always be in my head. They are memories, you have to learn to let them stay that way, and not try to bring them back and relive them. Move on to YOUR future don’t dwell on the past. Plus if you still want to get back with him then try maybe being not so "needy" give him space to think things out. If you two are meant to be it will work out, don’t push things. I wish you the best of luck and I truly hope this helped some even if it just helped jog your own idea.
Good Luck ~ Angie
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