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okay so me n my bf hav been goin out for the past two months n the thing is we like makin out n stuff but its totally taboo in our school...i mean there was this huge scandal when a guy n a girl frm our school ran away together and the school got a lotta bad publicity so now its like we get sent to the principal if we're caught holding hands and the teachers act suspicious if you talk to a guy for too long...so my bf really wants us to make out in the library...n its not lyk i dont want to...i totally do..just as much as him. n i'm ready n everything but isnt it a [HUGE] risk?? and also both our parents dont know so could we lyk hav sum suggestions on how to do this...cuz in a few days practice for our annual concert's gonna start and thats when almost everyone takes part and the school pretty much empties out and its quite deserted (i.e. minimum chance of being caught) so do you think we should do it then or if somewhere else then where? we're both 15...sorry this is so long. help plz!! :s

why in school? in my opinion, it totally ruins the moment; because you both are nervous about getting caught and then the kissing will be rushed. a rushed kiss is sloppy and not romantic at all. :\

i suggest somewhere at night, you could go to the park with a couple of friends & get to be alone with him. maybe you could go to the movies? anywhere besides school grounds really, have a get-together was some friends & him; then you guys could have a little privacy. (:

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hi..lets call me jane...okay so im like obsessively in like with my best guy friend, lets call him chad. okay so my best girl friend lets call her...well her names sam. okay so i told sam that i told chad i liked him and she was like OMG RLY? YAY so then she messaged chad on myspace and was like "omg jane told you she liked you!?!?!?" but hes not on right now..the thing is I NEVER REALLY TOLD CHAD! what do i do?! do i lie and make up a story saying that i was joking or do i actually tell him? thing is-- im POSITIVE he doesnt like me.

don't lie & make up a story, because even if you are positive he doesn't like you; he could always change his mind. doing that would probably make it even more awkward.

i don't know how old you are, but my friends always used to tell me "it's not 2nd grade anymore, you don't have to hide who you like"

so just tell him. if you don't think you call flatout tell him that you like him, just say you used to like him, but you don't anymoree. ahaha, trust me it works everytime. (:

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