Im Marisa..my friends call me rissa too so call me whichever one you want :) im 13 and i go to rhodes junior high ! I love to talk and im not scared to speak my mind when someone makes me mad or gives me something to speak my mind about! i guess im a fun person? i love acting goofy in places with a lot of people..i guess you could say my friends and i dont mind being the center of attention haha..i laugh a lot and try to make everything as good as it can get! :)and i love giving advice so ask away! feel free to IM me or email me whenever :)
E-mail: xmarisaluvzux@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mesa, AZ
Occupation: Junior high heh
Age: 13
AIM: x3BehindMyTearsx
Yahoo: xmarisaluvzux
Member Since: December 28, 2004
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ok well me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex. we know we're ready but whenever it comes down to it, we always have second thoughts. i know he isnt going to break my heart or anything if we do do it, but i dont know im really confused. (link)
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well im for getting married before i have sex so i'd probably say not to...not only cause its better to wait because you know your husbands the one...and if you get pregnant what are you gona do? even if you use a condom your not 99% sure your not going to get pregnant...condoms break.. and you can get std's too....you dont know for sure he hasnt had sex yet...he might have said he hasnt but guys lie...all the time and i can be the first person to tell u that. and if you guys break up your most likely going to regret doing it...at least i would :/ i just dont think its a really good idea. but good luck i hope it all works out :)
xo-Marisa
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thank you. it helped so much you dont even know. (link)
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no problem! anytime...thats what im here for :) if you ever need advice or help or just someone to talk to im here :)
xo-Marisa
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ok heres the thing....i lied to my boyfriend about something. it wasnt like about something absalutly horrible like i was cheeting on him or something but it broke his heart and now i cant stop crying and i feel really bad. this is like the worst thing that could happen to my right now. he wont answer when i call and i cant live without him. i walked down to the store and baught him some flowers and a card. im going to give them to him but i dont know what to say to him. im speechless. please help me. its important. (link)
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well first, call him and then leave a message saying how sorry you are...hopefully he gets the point and calls you back. then when you talk to him either when you give him the things you got him or on the phone tell him why you lied to him, and exactly how you feel, then tell him how you feel about him and that you never meant to hurt him....just let him know how much you care about him, and dont lie to him again...honesty is really important in a relationship...always tell him the truth even if it might hurt him, its gona turn out hurting him even more when he finds out you lied to him, well i hope that helped :) tell me how it worked out
xo-Marisa
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ok im like 14 and yeah well this is gonna sound stupid but whatever. theres this guy that i really like and he just doesnt care. one of his best friends says he liked me a lot last year and still does but he wont do anything about it. so now theres another guy and hes nice and stuff but not really that cute. but hes gonna ask me out and i dunno if i should say yes or not becuase of the other guy i like. i want the relationship to work out if i say yes but with the other guy that i like im afraid it wont. should i go out with the guy thats ready now or spend my time waiting for the one i like more? uggh man what should i do? (link)
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hmm well i think you should go with whatever your heart tells you to do. and if that doesnt work..lol then i really think it all depends if you really think the guy you really like is actually going to go out with you and commit to your relationship.also,then again if you dont really like the guy thats going to ask you out then whats the point of going out with him? you dont need a boy to make you happy! :) so i guess it all depends on what you honestly feel and honestly think will work. listen to your heart though!ask the guy that you really like how he feels about you and if he even thinks you guys are ever going to go out! good luck with the boys! :) tell me what happens! hope i helped!
xo-Marisa
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ok i know this sounds kinda lame but im 13 and i already have 'the one'. and i know he feels the same way. he told me he wanted to be with me forever and we spent new years together and it was so amazing.but now theres soming like stoping us from being able to hang out as much. hes in my twin brothers band now so when he comes over to hang out with me he hangs out with my brother and his friends. i try talking to him and we made a deal that we'd hang out every other day and he'd practice with my brother when we didnt hang out. i dunno if this is gonna work tho? what should i do?
Kelly 13
scottsdale az. (link)
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wow that sounds like my friend amanda..lol but her boyfriends not in her brothers band. and hes a jerk! juuuust kidding :D anyyways ya...okay now..thats not lame that you think you already have the one! he might just be! you and him are the only ones who can determine that ! dont let other people tell you different. but maybe you should try the band thing out. if he doesnt keep his deal with you and hangs out with your brother and his friends sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel and that you dont appreciate him not keeping his deal with you, and sometimes maybe you could hang out with all of them, and if they dont want you to give your boyfriend some time to hang out with your brother then after a little bit have him hang out with you for the rest of the time hes over! i mean all guys dont want to be with their girlfriends 24/7..but just give that stuff a try! hope i helped! let me know how it worked out! :)
xo-Marisa
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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!! (link)
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Ive been in like 3 long distance relationships..and none of them worked out...usually because he was he didnt call me or we never saw eachother...but that definately doesnt mean yours wont! i have a lot of friends in relationships like that, and they seem perfectly fine..ive heard of people dating from like 5th grade and getting married, so dont doubt your heart or him. if you trust him then keep on trusting him! its all about honesty and trust, just see where it all takes you, if it doesnt work out, then its for the best! everything happens for a reason ! good luck :)
xo-Marisa
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okay here it is i like this guy..but its clear he doesn't feel the same way about me. I told him how I felt and all and he just acts different now like im not really visible anymore..and it makes me wanna cry just thinking that it will never work.I don't know if i should keep liking him or just give up on the whole thing. (link)
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Maybe you should think about the reasons you like him...if he acts like your invisible now, talk to him about it and ask him why hes been ignoring you! aww and dont cry when you think about that kind of stuff! there's *always* a chance ! and crying over boys never helps! i have to admit ive did it a bunch of times and i still do but ive noticed it never helps! and dont give up...as i said give it a chance, maybe he will end up liking you but you were just kind of blinded at the begining..talk to him about it and see what happens! haha im gona give you a quote i got from a cinderella story...dorky i know but its a good one!
"Never Let Striking out, Keep you from Playing the game."
wow haha sorry if i totally screwed up those words!! but ya hehe
xo-Marisa
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ive been seeing this guy, for, well.. about 4 months. hes 3 years older than me. At first i thought he was perfect until he started to take advantage of me. he would sneak me out of my house so he could do it with me in his car. it was amazing I must say, and he has an amazing member. but i think he might be gay. if i ask him he might get mad at me. what do I do? (link)
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well i think that you should maybe just give it a try and ask him what you've been questioning youself..maybe if u ask him it will help ur relationship. if he says he isnt and gets mad at you tell him your sorry but thats how you felt. if he doesnt understand maybe he's not ask perfect as you thought he was. on the other hand, if he says he is gay i guess thats your decision to stay with him...also, if he's pressuring you to do things that you dont want to do then you should maybe just stop what your doing and say no dont let him take advantage of what your future is going to be like. well good luck!
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okay.here i go.i like this guy and i thought he liked me back but while i was gone on vacation, he went out with another girl. and it is like breaking my heart i cant stand to see them together . it hurts so bad. what do i do?? forget abou him? (but this guy, well he is my best friend) and i dont want anything to change. (link)
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well,tell him how you feel about them going out, if he's your best friend he should understand. if he doesnt then maybe he isnt all he's cut out to be....tell him you dont want anything to change you guys from being best friends,but really if he's going to do that to you...maybe you should let it go, he might be meant to be a best friend, not a boyfriend :/
xo-Marisa
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Okay here's the deal. I like this guy .. ALOT and I have for quite some time .. but I just really don't know if he has the same feelings towards me. So my question to you is that .. Should I keep liking him .. or move on ? ( As hard as that might be ) (link)
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I think you should tell him how you feel! its better than just keeping it inside, and theres always a chance that he'll like you back. so just tell him how you feel and see what he says. i guess thats what it all depends on, if he says he like you then obviously you should keep liking him....if not maybe you should move on! theres plenty of fish in the sea ;) just give it a chance! hope that helped !
xo-Marisa
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