My name is Amela im bosnian ive lived in the USA for 10 years and i love it here im a girl DDDDUUUHHH im 14 years old soon to b 15 on may 21 2006 i have one sister and one brother and a nephew whose turning 7 on may 16 of this year he is so fun cute and sometimes annoying. i like to meet new people and i like to hang out, go to the mall with friends go to the movies, i love playing soccer, basketball sometimes, well thats pretty much it about me.....
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I am in love. I know your probably thinking "A fourteen year old can't be in love!", but i am. Last night it all became clear to me. This is what happened:
There was a dance. I was kinda pissed at my friends for something so I hung around my guy friend who I used to like instead. Of course, we danced and stuff. We slow danced to two songs and grinded to one. As I said before, I used to like him, and then I realized something: I still did. I started liking the person I liked before last night just to get over the one I was dancing with. But the truth is I can't. I feel hot and cold at the same time when I'm with him, happy and sad. When he holds me in his arms I feel safe, like nothing in thee world could possibly happen to me. I want him more than I want anything else.
Now the problem: as far as he has told me, he likes my friend. He told me last night before we got really close. I think he still does. Now everyone, even teachers, think we are/should go out. And I want to but I don't know if he does. What do I do? Sorry, this was long. (link)
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well i think that you should tell him how u feel in a note or talk to him in person when no one is around or call him and talk to him and if he doesnt feel the same way about you then get over him its not worth it you might think that you cant get over him but after a while you will its only puppy love ive been threw it and im still going threw it so i know how it feels so like i said just talk to him and see what happeneds it might come out the way you want it to
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What do you do if you have been going out wid a guy for a long time and people tell you things about him .. should I belive them or ask him first if i ask him what if he doesnt tell the truth i realli need help on this (link)
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Well if he really truely loves you he wouldnt lie to you and he wouldnt do stuff behind your back and if people are telling you that he is doing things behind your back maybe there jelous of you and him but ask him and if you feel that he is lieing to u act like you belive him and when he goes some where u go to but dont let him know that your coming b there 20 min or 10 min after him and see what he is doing but dont break up with him untill you see what he does with your own eyes
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look people...i know what i did to scott was wrong so you can stop telling me how messed up i am and stuff. K thanks! anyway well i just found out from one of scott's old girlfriends that scott asked her best friend ( who i know) to cheat on me with him...ok this is the second time someone has told me he's been fooling around...and i am starting to believe it i mean why would people make that up? everybody hates scott...and were in a fight because he always hangs up on me all the time and when i do it he gets all mad? ok like he got fierd and he was taking it out on me and he was like whatever aleah and hung up...i mean i can't ask him if he's cheating on me because he'll say no and he probaly is becasue he cheated on me once when we went out before i guess the saying is ture: Once a cheater, always a cheater...
and when scott hangs up on me and calles be back five hours later and i'm mad he thinks i'm being a ***** but i mean if your boyfriend hung up on you all the time woulden't you be mad? thats not respecting me at all... and his drug problem is starting up agian he got his paycheck and he got 200.00 and he bought mushrooms to sell...and he said i'm not going to take them but he relapsed once before and then he said you just have to realize i'm a drug addict. and he was talking about marrying me? YEAH RIGHT!! how could he support me when he puts drugs before me? someone please help me? (link)
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Well i dont think he treats you right so if i was you i would end it right now and be like look when you get your act together and you relize that i care about you a whole lot then come back and when you relize that drugs dont come before me and just tell him you love him with all your heart and just end it and if he asks why that just happened be like well your cheating on me and more then one person told me and just tell him that when he relizes that you love him and that your more important then drugs then to come back to you
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Okay well there is this guy in my grade that I really like, and right when I started to like him all of these 8th grade girls that are my friends started liking him. He says that he likes me and 1 of the eigth graders but I want him to like me, just me. What should I do to really get his attention?? I think I've been doing a pretty good job so far.
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Well why dont you flirt wiht him more and like get one of his guy friends that your cool with to talk to him if you really like him because you can go all this year just likeing a guy and not want him to like another girl you need to talk to him or get one of his friends to talk to him for you and once you and him hook up he's your and dont worry about that other girl she probably doesnt even know that he likes her so i dont think you have anything to worry about
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well i wrote the other day saying i like my bestfriend some of you replyed i should tell him well my friend told him. He also liked me to.. and later that night we was talking on here and he told me he hope we go out and then i didn't say anything cause i was totally unexepting that and now he won't talk to me what should i do?
help i will rate high (link)
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Well you should call him and tell him that you were so happy that you didnt know what to say but now your feeling alot better and you would love to go out with him and if you dont have his phone number then go up to him when you see him or have one of your bestfriends go up to him and get him to come over to you and then ask your friends to give you adn him a minute of alone time and you tell him what happened when he said he hopes you and him go out he will be really happy and youll have a boyfriend that you love and that loves you back....
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There is a guy that I have been good friends with since the beginning of the year. We talk a lot at school and at church...and sometimes hang out with other church ppl outside of school and stuff. He's very, very nice to me (but sometimes he'll randomly be too sarcastic or standoffish) and I really think I like him. How can I get him to think of me less of "one of the guys" and more like a girl withought telling him? (he's pretty unreadable as to who he likes, but he sometimes flirts w/ me) HELP! (link)
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Well i think that you should try talkin to him about what type of girls he likes and if he likes your type of girls then name three girls and let your self be one of those three girls and see what he says and if that doesnt work then ask him if he see's you and him as a couple
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i ve been in this situation too many times i notice a girl , she does too we keep looking at each other day after day after day and i d keep asking my self wt should i do? should i talk to her . . . .or act a fool and say do you . . .whatever. . . so here s my question to all girls (what would you like a boy to come and say in this moment ???) ideas plzzzzz. and remmember now body wants to get rejected or insulted .so have a little mercy on us :) thanks 19 m
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OKay well im a girl and i would want a guy to come up to me and just talk to me and get to no me and if we both feel something for each other then we should go out to the movies and hang out and just talk and then later on i would want the guy to give me a chance well i guess u should go up to the girl and just talk to her and see what happeneds and if you want to talk to me just e-mail me heres my e-mail adress Boznianbaby314@aol.com dont be scared to e-mail me
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hey.. im having alot of trouble with my exe. he doesn't get off my back! his brother encouraged him to hate me and make all of his friends (my former friends) and alot of other people to get the wrong idea of me, after i dumped him.
what can i do just so that i can go ot school normally without those annoying people and their attitude against me. i mean, i know that i shouldn't care and that they aren't good friends and stuff, but this is my reputation im talkin about! im in real crisis, help if u can.
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Okay well i had the same problem with my exe Boyfriend what i did was go up to him and just asked him why he has a problem with me and he didnt answer so i asked him again and he didnt say nothing so i slaped him and told him to stop talkin and to telll his little friends to back off so do that and if it doesnt work talk to your bestfriend and if you dont have a bestfriend then talk to a family member or talk to your parents about moving but if that worked for me then it should work for you too.
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