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well im super jealousof all my guys gal friends. like he has so many. and hes always texting them. i get jealous and then his neighbor. causehe waits for her after school and walks with her. and he walks with her in the morning. he says not to be jealous and for me to trust him. he wont hurt me and all that. i also get mad at the smallest things. if he says something jokingly ill get offended or something. and i always seem like im making him mad. then he tels me. i like it when you make me mad. so im like why is he so confusing! then i was telling him stuff i hate. like how i make him mad and how were always arguing andhe txts back. i hate that i love you. what do you think is up? i need advice please! like is this guy for real? how can i quit with all my jealousy and getting mad all the time at the littlest things. idont want to lose him. i cant picture my life without him.its going to be our 1 month on saturday. thankyou in advance

I was like this too at one point but you do have to learn to trust him because you're relationship is going to be crap if you don't. You have to put yourself in his shoes and see how bad you'd feel if he were the super jealous one for no reason.

I say you let him know what you don't like and let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable but you also have to be just as willing to bend for him and the things he does.

Does that make any sense?

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Ok so I met this guy on the internet, I live in Minnesota he lives in Canada, we have been talking for oh 3-4 years? We have talked on the phone and seen each other on webcam. Basically I want to meet him now and he wants to meet me. We want to be together but obviously haven't gotten that close til we meet. Anyways I recently went away for ten days forgot my cellphone and when I came back had a message from him saying "I get the hint, you're ignoring me" WHICH I TOTALLY WASN'T! So eventually I got to tell him I forgot my cellphone etc etc.. and we ended up talking about how he doesn't think I will come and visit or stay and I don't want to be with him etc (he thought I went back to my ex cause I didn't talk to him for ten days).

I really like this guy, I have a major major crush on him which is odd, because I am 20 years old. I just love his personality and I am falling for him big time, he has told me that he is falling for me, but I DON'T KNOW if it's all just a game to him or anything.

I know this question is confusing and long, but I really don't know what to do, this is how my mind is working right now. Hopefully someone has been in the same situation?

I know the feeling.
I'm in a long distance relationship right now and have been for a little over two years. My boyfriend and I met on myspace of all places and things are working wonderfully right now.

I guess what you both need to do is talk seriously about what you want from each other. The first step would be meeting each other. I'm sure sparks will fly once you two get the opportunity to be face to face. Once that happens everything should fall into place.

My biggest piece of advice to to continue to be honest with him and ask that he be honest with you as well. When my boyfriend and I first starting talking about a relationship we asked each other what we wanted to come of it and how we were going to go about obtaining that. You can't do anything until you know where each other stand.

Hopefully that helped. If you ever wanna chit chat about this feel free to IM me.

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i want to make my boyfriend cookies for valentines day. what else can i do for him? nothing sexual please. by then itll barely be almost 2 months. and i want to make valentines special for the both of us. please and thankyou! in advance

What I did for my boyfriend 2 years ago when we were new to the relationship this was a got him a goody gift basket of all the candies and sweets he liked, making sure to only use the red, pink, and white ones. For example, red and pink starbursts or skittles, valentine Hershey kisses and hugs, twizzlers, Conversation hearts, and a bunch of other stuff. Stuff like that.

I also got him a Valentines Bear from build-a-bear which he enjoyed throughly. I would suggest if you get the bear to spray your perfume or body spray on it so it can remind him of you.

And to top it off I gave him a cd that I mad of songs that reminded me of him and us.

Hope this helps luv.

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