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hey. i'm leigh. i don't even know if people get on this thing anymore haha but i just came back onto this thing after three years and realized how dumb i used to be. i've grown up a lot. i've been through some rough times but some good ones too. if there is anything i can do to help you let me know. any questions you have feel free to ask

advice

this maybe a little confusing but...
well i really liked this one guy and he finaly asked me out but then it wsnt serious and i never saw him so i broke up with him...then i started liking this other guy and my fiends told me he liked me too but i didnt know..so i asked him to the pool and then i saw my ex and all his friends..but i thought my ex was gay ((not seriously)) but like i hatd him and then after a while i went up and tlked to him and all of a sudden i fell for him again..when i first strted liking him it took him forever to ask me out! well i really want to call him but i feel that he doesnt like me so i dont want him to be like uhh hi...bc i really like him and i want him to ask me out again and i just dont know what to do!

I HOPE I MADE SENSE..IF I DIDNT SORRY!

ok first off sorry it took me so long to answer this but it took me like a really long time to figure it out haha. call me him and be act totally normal dont bring up the past be like do yu wanna go to like the movies with me and like name a few other people. when your there flirt with him a little bit not alot. then like ask him to go somewhere another time and flirt a little bit more. keep adding a little more flirt each time yu see him. its hard to get over people. i understand. but if he ends up like not flirting back then maybe hes over you so dont hold onto him. guys are dumb. hot but dumb. sorry i couldnt help more but i guess i was rle confused. haha it took me like 2 weeks to even kind of figure it out. i.m me if you think i could help more

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so i have this boyfriend but its like he doesnt even like he likes his music more then he likes me and like my friends make fun of me and him and stuff and its kind of awkward and he was mean to my best friend but i like him for some weird reason and i dont no wat to do

tell him how pissed your getting because he pays more attention to music than you. if he doesnt cahnge break up with him. and oh my god if hes mean to your best friend then hes not worth it. boys are never worth more than yur best friend. take it from me. i hope i helped and i.m me if you want to know anything else cause ill be more than happy to help.

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Okay so there this one guy that i think is rel cute and i have a crush on him but i dont think he likes me the same way i like him sometimes he will come up to me and start flirting with me and i flirt back but i rel like him and i dont no if i should ask him out bc he probably say no so wat should i do?

well hang out with him a few more times so you get to know eachother better then ask him out. chances are he'll say yes and if he doesnt tell him that you want to pretend like it never happened so you two can still be close. guys are cool like that. they dont want things between you to get weird. i.m. me if you have any other questions.

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hi leigh im 13 and i like this guy. we only have hung out liek 2 times but the last time we hung out he was rele nice and funny. one of my rele good friends lieked him and he liked her but then he broke her heart bc she acted all stupid and whatever. i dont want to tell her i like him and i know he wont like me back but i cant help it. (( my friend got a new boyfriend but i dont think shes over this guy yet)). help!

ask your friend if shes over the guy. dont tell her that you like him thought unless she says shes over him. talk to the guy and flirt with him and stuff. you never know what will happen. he could like you too. dont ever doubt it. my friend liked this guy and i liked him too and i thought oh he'll never like me. but i got a suprise. =)

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im a slut and now i think i have and std wat should i do?

ok i doubt this is serious but if it is go to a doctor duh

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okay well i had this boyfriend and we went out for a long time and we were totally serious and did alot together but then he broke up with me and its been about a month since and he has a new girlfriend and im totally jealous and whenever we go out and they are together i get TOTALLY jealous and i just dont no wat to do

i know how you feel. thats happened to me. it takes yu half the time to get over an ex like compared to the length yu went out. sorry if that doesnt make sense but i dont kno how to put it. ok so liek if you wen tout for 6 months it should take you 3 months to get over him. well just try and get a new boyfriend go out with your friends and do fun stuff your obviously not going to forget about what you did together but it will help. there will be other boys. hes just another one. he may have been something special but hes not the only guy out there

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leigh, i love you!

cool

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alright well i really like this guy but he really likes my best friend and i think she likes him but i like him too so i dont no if i should just stay away or wat so i need help

ask your friend who she likes. and see what she says if she says the guy you like be like oh haha really i like him too. and act casual about it so then she knows and she'll probably back off. if not then maybe you should find a new guy. :/

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my boyfriend has been pressuring me to have sex with him for awhile now and since im only 13 i dont think its a good idea but i dont want him to dump me cause i really like him so i dont no wat to do

tell him your not ready. tell him that when you are youll let him know. if he gets upset then hes only attracted to you physically.

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I'm in seventh grade and i have this boyfriend and im not really sure if i like him i think i like this other guy but i dont want to take the chance cause i might still like my bf and i dont no wat to do

ive felt that same way before. give it a little more time and see how things go with your boyfriend. and then if you dont have as strong of feelings for hiim than break up with him.

hope i helped.

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ok i really like this guy at my school and i dont no if he likes me or not how do i find out?

plain and simple ask him who he likes and if he wont tell you then its probably you

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ok i really really like this guy and my bestfriend really likes him 2 and dont know wat 2 do

ok you probbly like him more. so go places with him and not your friend and like flirt with him alot and tellyour friend how yu feel and tell her that you kinda want to go out with him reallt bad. haha this isa gay answer but then she might understand.

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me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago and i still really like him and i want to get back together but he dont think he likes me anymore so should i give up on him??

well no offense but you gotta move on. i mean flirt with him and stuff and see what happens but dont get caught up. you'll finda guy thats better eventually.

-LEiGH

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ok hi leigh i like this guy but he is rele rele weird but hes sooo sweet nd he likes me but im scared to go out with him bcz hes planing on asking meout but like i dont wanna say no bcz i ke him nd i dont wanna say yes bcz of my friends and my rep. soo idk wht doi do?

if you like him it shouldnt matter what your friends think. i would go out with him. in time your friends will realize that hes a great guyand forget about the fact that hes a nerd.

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okay im 13 and i go to scl we met at a mixer once and there is this guy and we started hanging out at the begining of my 7th grade year and we became really close but he fell in love with this other girl but i fell in love with him but he doesnt love me and we probally wont even hang out over the summer but i think about him all the time and i dont no wat to do because i think i might really love him

ok well if yu like him as much as i think you do then call him over the summer. plan something with him and some other friends. flirt with him. spend extra time getting ready and he'll notice it. when he looks at yu and ur friends whisper in your friends ear look at him and do a cut elittle laugh. he'll get all shy and thts adorable. eventaully he'll flirt back and like things should go from there. if yu have any other questions i.m me and ill probably be able to help more..
LOVE-
ME

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ok well im a 13 and im in 7-1. so heres my question-
ok well i really like this guy in my neighborhood hes really nice sweet funny and hoott (lol) and we flirt alot but some days i feel like he's just messing around wen he flirts and sum days i think he likes me. in his pro it always says sumthing like im in luv w/ this girl and (i kno this will sound stupid) i really wunt to no if its me hes tlking about. ugh plzzzzz help me idk wut to do!!!!!

the easiest thing to do would be to ask him.

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ok well there's like this guy. and i liked him ever since we met like bcz at first he liked this one girl but then he liked me and like we've been in lOVE for 2 years? i dont rle know but ok he started moving on after i broke up with him. and i NEVER got over him and i have been trying so harrd but i dont know what to do bcz some of my other friends like him too. and i dont wanna tell people i like him bcz im trying to get over him. so any advice?

if they start talking about him when your around go do something else or cahnge the subject. its really hard to get over people. i would know but eventually you do. you move on. you make new friends and yu have new boyfriends. i know you dont want other people to like him but chances are he doesnt like them. he probably still likes you. sorry that i really couldnt help. but i odnt know what to do other than tell you that you will eventually get over him.
i know your strong. dont break down now. =)

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ok so my son of a b**** boyfriend is cheating on me and i really love him. i don't know whether to break up with him or stay with him. he told me he ould stop doing this to me but i honestly don't believe him. i wish i could trust him more. he's the most important person in my life right now but it's so hard being with a guy who can't keep his act together. please help me. by the way..... im a guy.

ok if this is some kind of joke im not laughing. if its true then heres wha ti would od....well my bf cheated on me and well i didnt find out about it but if i wouold have i would have broken up with him but he broke up with me so it doesnt matter anymore. break up with him because you deserve better than that

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yea i am dating this guy right now that i like and everyone is makeing fun of me because hes not popular......i also dont like him as much as i used to but i dont want to break up with him cuz it would hurt his feelings and im not good at breaking up!!!!!help me

whats the real reason you dont like him as much anymore? i think its because your friends r being dumbasses about it. if oyu reall ydont like him then say it nicely. be like i thought i really liked you but after we started going out my feelings werent as strong so i think we need to break up. he'll be ok. i promise. but dont break up with him just because hes not very popular and your friends say stuff.you may be losing the eprosn who cares about you most.

sorry that i couldnt help more

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im goin out with this 1 guy and i really really like him but i really like this other guy 2 wat should i do???

spend time with both and decide which one you like better. dont give up what you have without being sure of what the other guy has to offer.

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