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Occupation: High School student
Age: 15
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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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Okay, it was a good idea to pull away, because you guys werent kissing because you really like each other, you were kissing because others wanted you too, adn that totally ruins a kiss. Kissing is taken too lightly, it should be as pleasant as possible. Anyway, Tell him why you pulled away, its REALLY important that you do. Also, tell him that you like him for who HE is , not for who his friends want him to be. tell him to ignore those friends, because they jsut want to see some action because they cant get any. thats the only reason they are pressuring him. Dont let him listen to them, make sure he know that. He'll really appreciate that the pressure is off to impress his friends when alls he has to do is impress you. and that wont be hard since you already like him.
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