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Okaii I have decided to start this adive thinq I am 19 years old currently out of school not planninq on qoinq to colleqe or anythinq but I also love to chat online to my friends and always am in need of helpinq someone with problems so I fiqured this would be a qood opportunity for me to do that!

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I like this guy whos 7 years older than me. He likes me too but said the age bothers him. But when we are at parties we end up having sex or doing something sexual. I really really like him shold I just be friends with benefits for now then when im older think about going out with him or what?

Hey look!, I know exactly where you are coming from on this question because I am 19 and my boyfriend is 26 but we used to talk online and stuff went out did things (just hung out) so when my ex boyfriend ended it with me I asked him out we started dating and my mom didnt approve over the age thing she always told me that i was gonna break up with him and not date him anymore it hurt me so bad he called me and asked me what was wrong and was gonna say nothing but the bursted out crying to him telling and he said no one would break us apart but we just kept talking and dating eventually it all went passed and he stays with me whenver he isnt working and I sometimes stay with him we been together now for 1 year 1 month and so forth but enough on me and my advice to you is if you like him talk to him about it and tell him the way you feel for him and that maybe you should try going out to see if it would work out even with the age thing and all and if you both agree that its not working out be friends with him but if you want to be friends with benifits go ahead but you got to realize that if for any reason something happen and he gets mad he can turn you in for many things just be safe and careful hope this helped..and yes people will be like omg your with a 7 year older person than you and think its crazy onces it done and said they will all get used to it like with me.

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ok im 16. i have been w/ my b/f for bout a year n a month. and i just found out im pregnant 6 weeks. i love him very much but my family really doesnt aprove of him or want him in my life! now that they know im pregnant they want to stop seein my b/f becuz they think he is not father figure becuz my b/f isnt really that good guy he drug deals and used to be in gang and used drugs but has sober for about 8 and a half months. i dont know what to do help do i stay with his family and him n leave mine his family loves me sooo much they were always there for me. help. i dont know what to do!!!! HELp
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Okay hello, look you 16 and now have a big part of your life coming your way and thats a little baby girl or a baby boy and what you really need to do is call your boyfriend and tell him you need to talk to him and talk to him about the baby and how you want him to honestly try to stop doing the things he has been doing like drug deals and everything because you want your or (our) son or daughter to have a wonderful father who will love and help in anyway and not be put in jail and never have him or her knowing who her/his father is and talk to him about the baby see if he is really up to doing all this for the baby (if you wanna keep it) you also need to do is if he agrees to stopping this then you need to go and talk to your parents and tell them that you have sat down and had a long talk with your boyfriend (can say name if you want) and he has agreed to stop doing all the stuff he has been into doing and you both will take full resposibility into this new joy coming into your life I hope that I have helpled you in many ways even though having a baby at 16 is still too young but if your willing to keep it then thats the greatest thing ever then abortion and killing a innocent child good luck in everything keep me updated if you like

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