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Hey There! Im Nikki, a 14 year old Aries, who just wants 2 make life a little better 4 everyone!:P

We've all got our ups and downs, but what helps me stay positive and fun, is 2 not let the negitive bother u, stay positive and always remeber im always up 4 any questions! :)

And yeah, yeah i know what your thinking... "Oh yeah, its easy for you to stay positive and energetic! But i got my problems too!"

Well, the truth is i know, how difficult it is. But when u have good advice from either me or any one else on this site, and good mates you can get through this situation you're stuck in, in no time.

Love, Nikki
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Age: 14
Member Since: December 12, 2006
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I like this guy at school but the problem is he's black and my granny is really prejudiced and he asked me out and i said yes so we are going out but my entire family wants me to break up with him just becouse of the color of his skin what should i do? (link)
Stand up for yourself! Who cares what your raciest family thinks? They cant do anything about it, tell them you're the only decent one in the family that isnt prejudice against black people!

Ps- I really admire the fact that you dont care about the the colour of his skin.

-Toxic xox


My school's valentines dance is coming up and I asked this guy I like if he would go with me. He told me that I was the 4th girl to invite him and he'd get back to me cuz he hadn't decided yet and he wanted to see how many girls would ask him. I aske dwho the other 3 were and he said he never gave names. I know this is a lie because when I asked him to the last gc dance he told me who was taking him. Do you think he was lying to make me jealous or to give him an easy out if someone else did ask him? (link)
What i think is he's trying to weasel his way out of going to the dance with you. But you never know! So maybe you should ask around and see if he was really telling the truth.

Good luck
-Toxic xox


OK so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a while now and hes never made a move on me. Eh I dont know if should feel bad about this but I kinda want him to already. He is very lovey dubby and love is great and all but jeez and need a little lust every now and then too you know? Anyway any advice on how i can maybe lead him on to making a move, because i would never make the 1st move. so please help. (link)
Lol he's probaly nervous or something, or he might think you dont want him to make a move on you. Who knows?
Drop a hint, like if you want him to kiss you just stare at his lips, and look flirty while you're doing it. Maybe bite your bottom lip gently or something to give him a wake up call!

Good luck, nikki xox


13 female.

I have at least six guys that are in love with me. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I'm like in over my head. They all always ask me out and call me and ask me to come over and stuff.
What to I do to slow it down!?
please help! (link)
Get to know them, and you might really like one of them. If you dont, theres plenty of other fish in the sea. lol

Tell them you dont like them that way, and if that doesnt work... try and set them up with somebody else.


okay umm last night was homecoming and after homecoming the high school always puts on a dance that lasts till like, 1 in the morning. well, since it was so late i stayed at a friends house so my parents wouldn't have to come pick me up that late/early (whatever way you wanna look at it) because we live out of town. well my friends cousin just happens to be my bf and we (me and my bf) snuck out of my friends house and had sex. well it was my first time and all, and i heard it was supposed to hurt, but it didnt except a little at first. and ive heard about women having 'multiple orgasms'....is it normal to have like, 8? cuz umm thats what happened so what exactly does that mean? (link)
Lol! Thats a good thing! It means you were definately ready & comfortable with him (Thats probaly why it didnt hurt as bad) and the multiple orgasms meant he pleasured you alot! ;P

-Nikki xox


which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?

thanks for reading (link)
A tight butt, great body and good looking... what more could a girl ask for?! lmao
-nikki xox


k well. me and my boyfriend recently broke up. i felt no physical attraction to him and he really didnt have a romantic side? how do i set those aside to be with him and how can i change those so he does? (link)
well the truth is... you really can't change a person. its up to themselves to change. Besides, if u had no physical attraction to him, why do u want to change him in the first place?

Go find another guy to be with, theres plenty more singles out there. :P

Good luck,
Nikki xox




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