My name is Taylor Goldman.. i wanted to do this advice column cuz i think i can help you out with ur porblem and i know that beacuse i have had some of my own so i think i could help u out.. so just send me some questions and i'll be more than happy to answer them!! thank you
Gender: Female
Location: Clawson
Occupation: dont have one
Age: 14
AIM: too1246
Member Since: August 2, 2004
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Ok well theres this guy that i met right..And we talk every single night and we talk about everything.Hes like a new best friend to me..But im starting to get alot of feelings for him and i think im fallin in love..and i dont kno wut to do..he just lives so far away.And im afraid to tell him how i feel..Wut should i do??
Female..15.. (link)
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well see i think that u should tell him cuz i think that he might just feel the same feeling for u ehy and if u love him there cant be a price on love so the distance wouldnt matter just if u can see him cuz u love him and thats all that matter. i think that u should tell him that would the first thing theres gotta be something there if u guys talk every night juss take things alittle at a time and maybe he can tell him dont be affriad to show ur felling good luck let me know how it goes
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i am this person and i am going out with this person, but i want to other person what should i do, cuz i really really want to other person , what should i do ??????? help me (link)
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ok this is kinda confusing to understand so i think that ur going out with someone but u like someone else and u wanna be the other person that ur not goin out with i think thats right but if its not let me know and ill give u better advice but if thats right then i think u should go with whoever u feel stronger with if u love the other person more then the one ur going out with then dump her and go with the one u love instead of makin the other girl think u love or like her.. so do what u gotta do! juss be careful.. let me know who u r i this isnt right
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Okay.. Well... yeah that guy I was going out with for a year.. yeah well over the summer I had kissed a guy, twice. And I was going to tell him because I felt SO BAD about it. And somehow... someone got to him first. I dont know how. But someone did. So he said we could never get back together and he is so disgusted with me and I asked him if he still loved me and he said no. After pleading my case for... over 170 minutes... I asked him if he loved me and he said "I dont know." I was like okay, I know he does. He may be mad but he cant just stop loving me. --skip some time-- We went to the dream cruise together. And when I was sitting in the front seat (another girl went with us and at first she was in front) he jsut gave me this look.. and he like hugged me or somthing... I was liek I KNEW IT... he still loves me. And I was talking to him about it when we were sitting and the girl was off somewhere, and I was liek I would do ANYTHING to take it back, but I cant. So I would and will do anything to be with you. And he said he knew. And he looked kind of depressed... which of course was making me depressed... but whatever. And then I found out a whole bunch of stuff about some other rumors going on about me, like one of mike's friends got the password to my screen name (not that hard it was "ashley" but I changed it now) and so I started crying with him on the phone and he came over and we sat in my back yard talking. And I sat on his lap. And we kissed... several times... I wanted to cry each time I felt his lips touch mine..the thing I wanted SO bad... and I could only have a taste... and then we went over his house and he was cleaning his room for part of the time and then gave up. We ended up watching TV. And everytime we would kiss he would be like "This isnt right.." and everytime I would shake my head no. Not only was it right but it was the MOST RIGHT THING EVER. I need him so bad.. but yeah. So we ended up laying on his bed watching tv, still kissing at times. And in the beginning I would be kissing him and stealing kisses and such.. but after a while I asked him to kiss me, and he would kiss me. He said something I cant remember but I just slipped out "Will you go out with me" or somthing... and I regreted it as I said it. He said that he couldnt. Not after what I did... I wanted to die. I was like YES YOU CAN!! I just wanted to scream at the top of my lungs I NEED YOU DONT YOU UNDERSTAND! MY LIFE IS NOTHING WITHOUT YOU! NOTHING! YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING!! I WOULD KILL MYSELF IF THAT WOULD MAKE YOU COME BACK TO ME... I would do anything to get him back.. I mean anything... I love him so much... (link)
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ok well theres nothing really i can do to answer this cuz u didnt give me anything that u wanted me to say but ok ill just guess if u love him like u have told me that u did i dont tihnk u woud have kissed someone else now i know im right on that cuz if u do its once or twice in ur case u might jsut do it again so if u love him like u say then dont do that u hurt by that just like hes hurting u hes tryin to be srtiong but u keep trying to get him back which is fine but its like all u guys do is kiss but yet he wont go back out with u i would have said NEED YOU DONT YOU UNDERSTAND! MY LIFE IS NOTHING WITHOUT YOU! NOTHING! YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING!! I WOULD KILL MYSELF IF THAT WOULD MAKE YOU COME BACK TO ME... that to him cuz thats what i would do or say to someone and all he says it juss leave him alone like he needs him space so just give it some time keep talking with him and staying close just stand up for what u belive in and dont give up cuz if u love him im sure i will do what i would do and try ur damn hardest even if it takes awhile its will all be worth it in the end trust me
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Okay well..
I was going out with this guy for one year and we were completely in love. We had been having some problems before summer... but they were solved and I thought everything was okay.
Well it was our one year anniversary, and I was trying to get ahold of him. I called him over and over again until I finally got a hold of him. He had been sleeping. We talked for a minute and he said that he had to go. I was like "OKay well talk to you later I love you" and he was like "I love you too" and I added "Happy Anniversary" and he was like "Oh yeah..." as if ugh not again. And I asked him what he meant by that... and the convo went on to him saying he still loves me but someday he doesnt like me and somedays he does... and then he said he didnt want to have a relationship that he needs to get his grades up when school starts and then he needs to do somthings for himself. I asked him if he could ever see us getting together again (cuz we broke up once before --before summer-- and then got back together before he left for camp) and I was crying and hypervenhilating and over all trippin.
Then.. later that night I talked to him and he told me that he was sad at first that we broke up and then he kinda got over it. I mean I know how he felt cuz I couldnt stop crying and later when I got to work I started crying, but everntually I was getting over enough where when I got home I could talk to him again. And that happened. And I asked him if he still liked me and he said yes and I asked him if he still loved me and he said yes. I asked him if I could see him tomorrow (today) and he said if he could.
So I went to the mall with him today. I went to hold his hand (cuz last time we broke up he would still hold my hand and hug me and stuff) and he pulled it away. And he wouldnt hug me or anything.
And he kept asking me what was wrong and if I was depressed, and I kept saying no. Which was a total lie because inside I was just falling up wishing so bad that I could just hold him.
After he dropped my off at home I called him and I was planning on begging for him back but I couldnt do it. I kind of gave out a frustrated sound and yelled "I LOVE YOU" into the phone and he was like "Well, I need to get my grades up and I need to figure out some things for myself." and I was like, yet again, "Is.. Could you EVER see us being back together?" and he kind of snapped "I DONT KNOW and Im staying by that answer." and we ended the call.
And I am so completely in love with him that I cant stop crying. Even right now, I have one half hour to be to work and I cant stop bawling. And I know he still loves me... somewhere...
Try and give some advice for that one.
And by the way Taylor you're not fat so dont even go there. (link)
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ok well first off thanks for the whole not being fat thing lol but the main thing is ur problem. ok well im sure he still loves u cuz u cant really get over someone that fast cuz its been like a year but the thing is why all of a sudden is he worrying about his grades out of a year realationship but even if ur not together im sure he loves u but u should be happy that hes still ur friend cuz i losy my b/f and i wish he was my friend and he wants nothing to do with me but im sure if he took u back once then he will take u again if he comes back to u that means he loves u and u bet hes dying inside just like u r cuz he misses u but he cant do anything about it cuz o his grades and i hope u 2 get back together and stop crying cuz its not nice to cry over some boy even tho i do the same thing but if u keep crying thens its just gonna make u keep thinking bout him ok its his lost not urs im sure ur a beautiful girl (in a friendly way) and every guy should want to be with u so just be patient and what for him or try and move on but he will come back to u cuz he does love u im sure hes just confused right now hope my advice worked and if u want let me know if it did but u would have to tell me ur name thanks and bye GOOD LUCK
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He shows that he likes me but i think hes just doin that to just have someone to mess with... (link)
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well dont be with him if u think that hes messing with u cuz u dont want to get hurt but i dont want to tell u just follow what ur heart is telling u
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i love this girl and i was gana ask her out but its to late what do i do?
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well see its hard to answer this but ill give it a shot i think that u should wait.. mayve its not to late its never to late try moiving on then maybe when she wants u back u will be with someone else but idk what to tell u if u love this girl than try to get her back but if its like a crush than well leave it alone and move on i know its ahrd to move on but hey u gotta try it i know this isnt great advice but hey im not a professinal
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first of all your 14, you dont know anything about love you should still be playing with barbies (link)
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ok well first off all i dont play with barbies and u dont know me so why dont u keep ur fucking mouth shut u fucking bitch before i shut it for u and i do to know about love or else i wouldnt of done this ok i've known what love is cuz i've exerinced in so shut ur fuckin mouth and stop letting the dicks in and out of it
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hello.. talyor im not goin to tell u who this is but im sure u could fiuger out lol but anyways... i like this guy but i dont no if hes gonna ask me out ppl said he was but idk (link)
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ok well i think you should listen to what your best friend says cuz she would'nt lie to u like that and i doubt she would make you break up with ur boyfriend if she wasnt sure listen to ur heart and see where it takes you i bet it will take you to the one you love. Good luck and i hope it works out for you!
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