I'm Alana (Lana). I have brown hair with blonde highlights. I'm 13 and I live in NY. I love hanging out with my friends and goign shoping. I/M me on Summerr Babex or xmistak3nx if you have any personal problems you do not want to put on my advice column. Thanks for stopping by!
E-mail: Alana412@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: hanging with friends
Age: 13
AIM: SummerrBabex
Member Since: July 10, 2005
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Last Update: August 6, 2005
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ok well i went out with this boy twice and now hes mad at me for getin all mad at him so now he doesnt want anything to do with me witch is not fair because i said i was sorry and i still love him but now i dont know what to do because he is mad at me please help
sincerly,
boy obsession (link)
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why dont you just liek let him be and try to explain how you feel for him or how you feel about the situation.maybe he will understand
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okay well i have had this boyfriend for 5 years since i was 13 nd im 16 now like we have always been serious and like we just starting hugging last year and he just kissed me last week on our offical 3 year aniversary and like i always wanted things to move faster but i feel weird taking the first move i mean hes already 17 nd he hasnt even gone onto 1st base but i know he really loves me and i wasnt things to speed up but i dont want to make the move and how am i sure he even wants it and maybe he does but he thinks i doesnt PLEASE HELP
Love Always
Too Prude
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um talk to him about it
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hi lannerr
listen i need yout help..see me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a long time..like 9 months i think or longer..we hang out alot or sometimes really and i love him..i think he loves me too..but i dont know..i think he has feelings for girls that he usto like or love..he makes promises and say i promise i promise an dthen he never keps them..weve takled about tthis before but all he says is hell make it better..i mean he did but just not the keepin promises..idk what to ..i try callin him but he is always wit his friend and never wants to pick up telphpne cause he is too like chicken shit to have a girl that he syas he loves..idont kno whayt to doo..please help me (link)
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well tell your boyfriend that he makes promises to you and he never keeps them and it pisses you off and/or gets you upset becuase he never keeps his word.. and you loose trust in him everytime he lies to u .. hopefully he'll see ur side and understand
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Dearr lanerrr
i dont noe what doo .. my boyfriend always ditches me for his friend and when i always ask hi if he wants to hanga and he sayss sure babee thenn i sayy okkayyy then the next day he comes home from lax camp soo then i go onlinee and see ifff his older sister is onn she iss!! yes i say to mysleff!! soOo then i sayy jill is your brother home and then i say okk then she says that he is leaving now to go to joes or anthonys or matts or wherever he is goingg then i get mad!!! soOo thenn i call him and he ocks upp annd sayss OO GOSHH WHERE LOSING RECEPTIONN!! then he hangs upp and then i say to0o mysleff ughhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! soo then i call himm backkkk and he doesnt pickk upp!! so0o i keep calling back and he still deosnt answerrr cause he noes im gonna ask where he is andd what he is doingg soo he deosnt pickk upp !! (link)
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well i think that you should confront your boyfriend and tell him that he always ditches you to hang out with his friends and itt hurts your feelings and whenever you call he ignors you..tell him u never see him and you want to hang out wtih him but he ditches you when he sys he would hang outwith you .. try to tell him how you feel and hopefully he\'ll understand!!!!!
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im a female.. and i have this friend allison.. well i have a boyfriend named john and weve been going out for like almost a year and i kno he likes me but my best friend allison is all over him all the time .. and when ever im not around she talks about himn saying oh hes gorgeous and i would so go out with him. and it kinda pisses me off becuase even when im around shes stil all over him and she doesnt even care and still he doesnt even try to get away from her.. but the thing is if i say something to her she'll be mad at me and be like oh please u get so jealous and she always tells me that we should break up and allison also tells people we never talk and that its pointless and we do talk but shes never around. shes really mean to me about it and stuff. and john always is liek yeh i like allison but he says it as a joke and stuff and it pisses me off .. !!!! what should i do about them??
sincerely HELP ME PLEASE! (link)
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Dear " HELP ME PLEASE! "
well i think that you should confront allison and tell her you would appriciate it if she tried to stay aay from your boyfriend. and also tell john to stop joking around saying that he likes her and just tell him to try an stay away from her too cuz its getting you upset and/or maybe ur getting a little jealouse. HOPE I HELPED!
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This is the only way i can make this short .. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and our relationship was going well. Like not even a week ago i started to hang out with these guys that he doesn't like or trust .. i told him that i was hanging with them and he got really pissed and we started arguing. In our relationship i am completely honest with him because i don't want to hide something from him and have him find out later from someone else and him get madder than he would've if i had told him in the first place. Well i am starting to have these feelings for a guy i've been hanging out with and i told my boyfriend. He totally flipped out because now he thinks that i like this guy more than i like him - which is NOT true at all. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i always will no matter what happens between us. I'm just wondering if i should tell my boyfriend that we need to take a break from our relationship so i can figure out if the feelings for the other guy are deep or if i should just forget about the other guy or what?! PLEASE HELP! =( (link)
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i think you should take a break with your boyfriend that way you can sort out your feelings for the both of them and see if you can live with or without your boyfriend. if you have feelings for someone else then u dont love your boyfriend as much as you do/did. so try some time apart and think things through. hope helped
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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP. (link)
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well maybe the reason you can't get a boyfriend is because they see you as one of them or as one of their pals.. hopefully a guy withh fall for your personality and just open up to who u r on teh inside not on the outside.. hope i helped=]
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Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth? (link)
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if you still love him and he still loves you and you both have feelings for eachother i say go for it.. if your gonna go to the same school you might as well try it out again
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