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im a 15 year old girl...i've been friends with this guy for almost a year, and me and my friends hang out with him and his friends a lot, so we're kinda like a little group. earlier this year we went out, but nothing happened (we didnt even kiss and it was hard cuz we went to different schools). while we were going out i heard shit all the time about how he liked another girl or w/e and i tried to ignore it all. well..after about a month we broke up cuz we agreed it wasnt really a relationship. ive liked him ever since we broke up and hes had 1 g/f since me, but they jsut recently broke up. i think he knows i like him and i really want to tal to him about how i feel, i just dont know how to do it or if we should just go on being friends and nothing more. im scared if we go out again things will be the same as they were(even tho we'll be going to the same school this year) (link)
i think you should tell him, cuz he might also have feelings for you - and plus now u guys are gunna be goin to the same school so things could be gettin better if you guys go out.. so i think you and him should have alil talk and tell him the feelings you still have for him =) rate me and write me back sometime!


Ok so I feel really stupid for doing this....but ok, I've been dating my boyfriend Jake for 7 months now...and we're totally in love and everything between us is really good...but ok he has an ex-girlfriend, and she tries to get back w/ him alllll the time!!! I know that she knows it bothers me, but I've never said anything to her because I don't want to sounds psyco ya know!? but like....when she sits there and bashes me and tries to talk about when they were together and how much she still likes him and blahblahblah...it really makes me jealous! I don't thing he would cheat on me, but it just gets to me that she won't move on with her life and leave us the hell alone! Expecially because he's broken up with me before, for her...Is it ok to say something to her? and if I do how do I say it and not sound bitchy? I don't want to totally make her hate me because we hang out w/ a lot of the same people..even though we're not friends, I don't want her to like not be able to be civil with me....what could I say to her without being psyco!? (link)
ah i hate girls, this shit always happens - i think u should say suttin to her or say suttin to ur boyfriend to tell her that he doesnt like her, he likes you and hes never gunna go back out with her and to jus back off.. im not sure but if i were u, id say something to her - but idk how to say suttin in a nice way lol i guess.. just tell her straight out, " look i wanna be civil with u but you and my bf are thru, so jus try to move on and stay outta our relationship, theres plenty of guys out there that arent takin so jus try to stay out of our relationship " im not sure if that sounds bitchy but i donno what to say lol, maybe jus have ur bf talk to her .. hope i helped alil! write me bac with what happens =) rate me plz


hey you might remember me..i sent this question-

hey this might be a little long..

i've liked this guy for about a year and we were just friends and like a month or two ago we started chillen, talking about a relashionship, making out non-stop, meeting each other constantly, i heard from his friends "yo tiffany, mike has been sayin he was gunna pimp it for the summer but he said since he met you things are gunna change" and then i went away for a week and when i got back i heard he messed with this girl and i didnt even ask him i was just like "im sure rebecca helped you take your mind off missing me" and we started fighting, he got mad that i listen to other ppl and he told me he didnt mess with her and then i asked him how he feels and he says he cant tell me right now and im like why and he says its hard..im expecting that hes gunna say he just wants to be friends, i dont know what to do im in love with him but im afraid if i walk away he wont come after me or if i saw we should just be friends 1st he's not going to be feeling that way i mean how can it go from loving me one day to completely ignoring me?? you know the song burn by usher thats how i feel..help me i dont know what to do

..okay well last night he IMed me online saying

him: baby im sorry for acting like a dick lately
me: okay but its still kind of hard not knowing how you feel and what to do and im sry too bc i know i've been a big bitch
him: lets just call it truse

i guess we're fine and going to start off from where we left off before the fight? im not sure but thats what it sounds like to me, but i still dont know how he feels, but i dont want to be annoying and ask, should i wait till we're in person and see how we chill, like if we chill as friends or something more then friends and ask him then or idk just help me please
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aw thats good things are starten to be okay now! well i say wait till ur in person together, bein alone, and just ask him how he feels about bein together - and if u wanna no if he likes you, ask him " why do u like me " and if he has no idea why, somethings up =/ well idk maybe that'll work well i hope everything goes alrightt! write me again =)


im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him? (link)
well if u dont want to be with him nemore you should tell him you think its time you guys break up but u still love him but things have changed and that u care about him and dont want him to hurt him self, and that you guys should stay as friends, and ur goin to high schools and u wanna start off fresh.. hope i helped alil =) write me sometime! rate me pleaze


In the beginning of the year one of my ex-boyfriends got put into jail and whenever he came back he asked me. Well I told him I would go out with him if he swore he wouldnt do drugs anymore and he wouldnt cheat on me. Last week he went to his friends house and got high and drunk and told a girl he would go out with her well he call me that same night and was crying and told me all about it and then I called his older brother and his brother told me that he had made out with another girl at the movies that sunday. Well i got really upset with him and we broke up. That friday he was at the skatin ring with the girl and he was cryin because he missed me and I was cryin because I missed him. He told me that he would try to stop doin drugs and that he really loved me and that he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me, but I dont know if I should give him another chance. Should I give him another chance? I am a girl and im 15 years old. (link)
well you did give him 2nd chances wen he was drunk that night, and he cheated on you again - you dont need this shit in your life, maybe you should just 4get him but if you trust him with him not doin drugs nemore and wont hurt you, then maybe you should give him a try and if he fucks up again, he didnt mean what he said and then you should 4get him - so either one i think? hope i helped alil, write me some time with what happend! rate me please


Hey..ive liked this kid for such a long time and ive tried so many times to get away from him becuase i keep getting hurt but its so hard because he tells me exactly what I want to hear and gets my hopes up. But when he is around his friends or just randomly sometimes he can be so mean and not care at all and then when he needs someone he comes back to me. I was wonder if you think i should just give up and move on. (link)
wow.. i think you should move on bcuz you seem like a person who doesnt need that kinda shit in their life, there are so many more men who can take your heart away =) or just you and him go out and talk about how u feel and what you told me and try to work things out.. you dont need this - hope i helped, write me sometime! rate me please


hey this might be a little long..

i've liked this guy for about a year and we were just friends and like a month or two ago we started chillen, talking about a relashionship, making out non-stop, meeting each other constantly, i heard from his friends "yo tiffany, mike has been sayin he was gunna pimp it for the summer but he said since he met you things are gunna change" and then i went away for a week and when i got back i heard he messed with this girl and i didnt even ask him i was just like "im sure rebecca helped you take your mind off missing me" and we started fighting, he got mad that i listen to other ppl and he told me he didnt mess with her and then i asked him how he feels and he says he cant tell me right now and im like why and he says its hard..im expecting that hes gunna say he just wants to be friends, i dont know what to do im in love with him but im afraid if i walk away he wont come after me or if i saw we should just be friends 1st he's not going to be feeling that way i mean how can it go from loving me one day to completely ignoring me?? you know the song burn by usher thats how i feel..help me i dont know what to do (link)
wow complecated situation =/ just confront him your feelings for him and that you do love him and wanna be with him but your afraid hes not gunna come after you after sayin you guys were talkin about a relationship.. he got ur hopes up and thats messed up - hope i helped alil.. write me sometime! rate me please


Hey im 15(female) and I have a very confusing life right now. I started dating an ex boyfriend a year ago, we only stayed together for 6 months but I loved him very much. I did everything with him he was my first. We broke up and he has not talked to me yet. I felt lonely so I thought that I should sleep with the most popular guy in school. He asked me out but I said no cause Knew he didnt really want to. Now I am sleeping with a good friend of his and my best friends cousin wants me to take his virginity. I am also talking to one of her best friends i like him a lot and when he found out about this he was very upset but he forgave me. She is dating a good friend of mine and she didnt really want to she asked me some stuff and i told her what i heard. He got mad at me and stopped talking to me and went behind my back. He told another girl to kick my ass and all. All I want is for someone to be there for me and im tired of sleeping with ppl for attention....What should I do??? (link)
wow.. this was alil confusin.. who wen bhind ur back, ur ex or ur friends bestfriend? but whoever you should tell that boy ur feelings for him and that u want some1 or him, to be there for you bcuz u like him alot - thats all i could think of.. sry if i didnt help - rate plz


first off i wuna say thanks about the advice on my boyfriend not lettin me talk to my ex -- but i have another ? .. my boyfriend lives like 5 min from my house nd since it's stupid to have to drive back nd forth from my house to his i jus want him to sleepover my house or me over his house nd my parents are bein irrational about it .. i think they should have more trust in me .. its not like im guna have sex wit him wen he sleeps over(they think cause he's 18 hes guna force me into things but he doesnt) .. how could i convince them that he should be allowed to sleep over?! (link)
no problem i hope it works.. oh man this is a tuff one but im gunna try to help u, just tell ur parents that hes a reasonable guy and he'd never force u into doing nething - tell them that if he did force u, then u'd never do anything.. if they dont have ne trust in you then u have to earn their trust and maybe ask them "if he was a guy who'd force me into doing things i dont want to.. why would i be going out with him?" and maybe tell ur parents that you`ll sleep in the living room or something where you really wouldnt be able to do nething well idk but i hope i helped alil =)


alright,ive been really good friends with for a long time. and now ive started to like him. problem? hes moving in august. ive been to afraid to tell him that i like him because i thought it would only make the fact that hes leaving harder. is telling him really worth it? even if our relationship would be over in a month? id really like some help. (link)
dont be afraid to tell him cuz u mighta loose your chance! its always worth trying or atleast have ur friend ask him if he likes you or ask one of his friends.. it would be worth telling him u like him.. but that sucks hes moving away but i think you should tell him just to let him no even tho he is moving away =/ rate me plz


i am a 13 year old boy and i always have threesomes with my dog and my dad while my little brother is taping. wat shud i do i really dont like it but im payed to do it and the money is good for cocaine. please give me advice (link)
i hope ur kidding! that shit is gross.. dont do it


hi im am 12 and whenever i get butfucked i poop and the boys beats me wat shud i do because i love to get it up the butt please help me ??? (link)
wtf?? i hope ur kidding


I'm pretty sure I'm in love with my boyfriend and we've been talking about having sex. It'll be my first time & I'm a little scared. Is it normal to feel this way? Do you think after we actually do it he'll break up with me or go babbling to all his friends? I want this to be special for both of us & between just us. How do I know I'm absolutely ready? (link)
yes its normal to be scared when its ur first time. tell him that you want it to be special for both of you and between u guys and u dont want him to go tell all his friends, if he loves you he would respect what ur telling him. you no ur ready when you guys are together and its just the perfect time! =] hope i helped. rate me pleaze


Hi, im 15 and female. Im starting to really like one of my guy friends. Im not sure if he knows or not .. but i really wanna tell him, and i dont wanna sound stupid either. The thing is that i dont think he likes me! Should i ask him or just forget bout it? (link)
happens to me all the time! you should tell him that ur starten to have feelings for him, or have ur friends ask him or ask one his friends, they might no =) rate me please


Hi, i'm the gerl that asked is it wrong for me to get jealous when my boyfriend is close with my friend (gerl).. Well, the gerl has been going out with her boyfriend for like 6 months and they like love each other.. the gerl wouldn't try to do anything with him because she knows how i am with him. And he wouldn't do anything with her because he loves me. But how do i stop being jealous when they talk and stuff? (link)
well maybe you should talk to ur boyfriend about how u get alil jealous cuz ur afraid theyre gunna start to like each other and something is gunna happen.. and maybe talk to ur friend too - that should kinda help =)


i really need some advice. Ok, im in 8th going into 9th and my boyfriend is in 7th going into 8th. I know that sometimes people think thats weird but i really really like him a lot and hes really respectful to me. Well im going to highschool and hes moving away and so many people have been hasseling me to get rid of him because they say i shouldnt have an 8th grade boyfriend in highschool thats just plain weird. I dont wanna be a loser in highschool but i really think i love this kid. Please help! (link)
Dont listen to what people tell you.. its ur life and if you love him so much you should be with him.. age doesnt matter =)


hey im 16 my names vicky well my question orkinda my problem is ive been talkin to these two guys a lot and i hung out wit the one chris once and it was soo wonderful and he keeps tellin me how much he likes me but then when i asked him if he would ever go out wit me he told me maybe and i dont kno..how do u not kno if u tell me u like me soo much and so im confused on what i should do...and second the other guy ive hungout wit a lot a nd im not sure if he likes me a lot or not and i really like him to and i dont kno what to do if u could help me it would mean a lot maybe email me back at krazililshorty98@aol.com thanx vicky (link)
Well the other guy, chris, that is weird if he tells you he likes you and then maybe that he'd go out with you? well a maybe isnt all that of a 'No' i think you should hang on to him still and see what happens with you guys.. and the other guy - maybe you should ask one of his friends if they no he likes you or have ur friend ask this guy if he likes you, works sometimes =] .. rate me plzz


There is this guy...I have liked him for awhile, but he started dating this girl, and they were going out for about 4 months. Now, "this guy" and the girl he used to be dating are having some relationship problems and they are pretty much broken up. I still like this guy, but it's really hard to tell if he likes me. I don't know what to do...I have feelings for him..but I don't know if he has feelings for me, what should I do?! Thanks for the advice! :-D (link)
Well i think you should ask one of his friends, they might no - or you could have one of your friends ask him or have them ask him if he'd ever start talkin to you and maybe eventully go out!.. good luck =] hope i helped alil .. rate me plz =)


i know this might sound weird but i have a tail.. everytime i try to get intimate with someone they see my tail!! Then they run SCREAMING!! this is really effecting my life! What should i do? (link)
i hope your lieing.. i never heard of a person with a tail?.. but i think you should get it cut off


Okay, well i`ve been dating this guy for 10 months. idk if i`m just being selfish, but i don`t know if i like him anymore, but i can`t bring myself to break up with him, and when i do, i feel so alone and if i see him with another girl, i get so jealous. i don`t know if i should break up with him or not.. i mean yeah i guess i still love him, but when he calls and stuff i dont really feel like talking and stuff, what should i do? (link)
i no where your coming from.. maybe you should break up with him and try to find someone else and if you do miss him if you guys break up maybe you should try to get back with him, if you do break up.. sry if i didnt help much - rate me plz




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