Hiya,
Right firstly, why do you feel like you "have" to have a girlfriend?
Shouldn't it be about when the times comes and when you find someone who you genuinely like, rather than just wanting a girl to have as arm candy?
Just concentrate on who you are, let the girl find you, looking for that special someone never does you favours as it usually just leads people to dissapointment. Concentrate on your personality, your life, your appearance, how you are towards people.
Treat girls with respect, I'm not saying be over the top with the gentlemen ways, but show a girl you don't just want her for sex. Maybe make the effort, if you see someone you like, "go talk to her" or find her email/website or get her number and contact her.
Girls love abit of confidence!
Don't go all out to impress though, be yourself, don't try TOO hard with girls!
And even though you should be nice and friendly towards a girl you have your eye on, also keep it cool and be a little aloof; have your own life.
What is it that your struggling with that is making you feel desperate for a girlfriend?
Email me if you want :)
Love Sugar x
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