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I might not have the best life but when it comes to helping ppl i seem to do a pritty good job. I have been through it all the relationships the drama at school and the tough times at home. If i cant help you i hope someone can.
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: Suchtig2ihr
Yahoo: sum1hasmyusername
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Member Since: October 17, 2004
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Last Update: October 27, 2004
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what is love? how do u know when u r in love? please help cause i have wanted to know for a long time (link)
I can tell you when you are in love.. its when you cant bare to be apart from them the second you meet them till forever never wanting to let go holding on threw good and bad.. love is giveing someone the abuilty to destroy you but the trust not to.. (i speek from exsperiance I


ok, i dont want to come off like slutty or anything...but my b/f and i have been together for about 2 months now & all he's done is given me like lil kisses(no tongue). like he's pretty touchy feely and all but i mean its been 2 months & we love each other so much and its been nice, but i'd like there to be more..like we've talked about moving further and stuff but when we're alone 2gether nothing happens! he's only had like 2 g/fs & he's only kissed and got head b4..which he knows i will NOT give him head..but anyways lol, how do i get him to losen up and like actually make out with me & relax .. i love him so much & i know he loves me, but sometimes itd be a lil nice to have a lil more physical in the relationship..know what i mean?

thanks,jessica (link)
I was in the same spot you where its good to have some down time and depending on how old you are makes a diffrece in how he will react try talking to him and asking him to take it a step firther or mayb he is shy and doesnt wanna make the move you will have to step in then well.. good luck n dont be shy make the first move you will be shocked to see what happens x0xLuckyx0x


okay..theres this boy i like, and he and i are getting pretty close, and i think he likes me..and we were hanging out..and he told me one time he puked his food up on purpose..cause he wrestles and he wants to be in a littler weight class...but he told one of his bestfriends...that he does it often..and im mad that he lied to me and im sad cause he could get sick..but he doesnt know i know...and i dont want to say sumthing to a counsler or hed get kicked off the wrestling team for cheating, and im afraid if i say sumthing...he will get mad! and i really like him alot and i dont want him mad, but im prolly gunna talk to him about it what should i say? (link)
Tell him straight up that it isnt good for him.. you should take some time to look up some stuff online about it. there are some other alteritives to doing that he could watch what he eats insted of makeing his self puke.. make sure you tell him what the acid from his stomace is doing to his throut and teeth its rather sick and gory if u look at pic's of it.. well.. i hope i was of some help to you x0xLuckyx0x


I have this friend and we hang out a lot. The problem is that he has a girlfriend 2 years older than him and im only one year older than him. They have been going out for about 3 weeks but he hangs out with me more then her. He always asks me to hang out on a day and then he asks me to walk to her house with him and hang out. He is always him self around me but he doesnt really be himself around her. What do u think is goin to happen between them and me and him. I would hate to ruin ne thing between them but he is always with me atleast a lot more than with her. and when he is with her, he always asks someone to go with him, usually me. What is this all about do u think? (link)
I think he is trying to get closer to you and spend more time with you.... either that or he doesnt want there to be an odd silenc when he is with his girlfriend either that or he really doesnt wanna be with his girlfriend at all he just wants you i think you will just have to wait and find out what happens or just come out and ask him whats going on but make sure you tell him you do like spending time with him so you dont give him the wrong impression well.. good luck hope i could help.. x0xLuckyx0x


Well, theres this guy that Ive been liking for a while now. All of my friends know I like him, and most of his friends know too. Everytime I talk to one of his friends, they'll say something like "ooo, guess what? _______ says he likes you!" or some other thing like that. Are they trying to tell me something,like what he says when theyre hanging out, or do you think they are just immature teenage boys? I really want what theyre saying to be true cuz i really like this guy, but i cant help but think theyre just teasing me. Please tell me what to do about these dorky guys! (link)
If it is anything like what goes on around me i think you need to talk to this guy and tell him straight up you like him i dont beleave in being shy it gets you nowhere and you might just run out of time bc he might find someone new.. Take every shot you can to hang out with him get to kno him and see what he thinks about you.. im sure it will work out in the end good luck i hope you get him! x0xLuckyx0x


I am 47 been married 2 1/2 years and for the first time I have never been so much in love, just recently about 6 months ago it seems like I have to beg for attention from my husband not sexual attention even though that department is not like it used to be but I want the hugging, cuddling, holding hands, kissing just to be close. I just do not what to do anymore, I am tired of trying and crying and the funny thing is 7 months ago I weighed 200 lbs and decided I was going to lose it on my own so I got really motivated and lost 60 lbs. I went from a size 18 to a 6 and I thought things between us both in the bedroom and out would change, I was wrong I jst need some good sound advice. Thank you taking the time to read my question. Bonnie (link)
Bonnie It sounds like he has lost intrest.. You need to sit him down and talk about whats going on he might just tell you he wants something to change insted of it being the same old thing in bed... Dont bother your self about it for all you know it most likely isnt your problem. Well.. good luck with you and your husband hope i was of some help.


What happens when you are stuck between what your parents think and how you feel? Should it matter your parents dont aprove and just go with what ur heart says?? (link)
I would go with what your heart says. Even tho your parents might not like what is going on as long as you are not hurting yourself i see no reason y u cant do what it is your doing. and if i am right i think i kno where ur comeing from with this your parents dont like who you are dateing.. stick with him its a once and a life time thing just dont get ur self hurt!




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