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Okay this is all very confusing, I'm sorry and I hope it doesn't make ya'lls head spin but here is my problem.
I made out with a guy totally unaware that he had a girlfriend.
Well recently, I got in contact with his brother, and she was over there. I mentioned something to his brother about us making out, in jest. She got on and immediatly asked me if whatI say is true.
I said, yes. It was. I wasn't gonna lie.
She told me that they'd been dating for three years straight, and she thought she might be prengnat. HE told me nothing of the sort, that she was just a friend.
After much hassle, she called me and told me she'd confront him about it. She did, and he denied it, and she told me "I don't believe you, I trust him."
Things are blowing up, random friends of hers are IMing me like crazy, and his brother is sort of half and half beleving me, yet feeling dedication towards his brother.
Of course the whole attention thing is on them..its oh "Krista* made a big deal about it.." "OH krista is trying to ruin a relationship" when that totally wasn't my view or anything.
How can I help what she saw? I think its been hurting me more then it has them. What do I do?
I want a logical way to get back at them, or to show them that I don't give two dead rats.
I want the girlfriend to know that it IS true no matter how much he denies it, though it doesnt matter much to me if we messed around or not.
HELP!
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as long as you know know the truth about what really happened between the two of you, that is all that matters. I was in the exact same situation a few years ago. Except the guy had everyone believing him and hating me for "lying". I told everyone the same thing, " believe what you want, I was there, I know what happened, and the truth will eventually come out" sure enough, the truth finally surfaced and he admitted that he lied, and all those people who didn't belive me came begging for my forgiveness..and never spoke to him again. My advice is simple....dont worry about it. As long as you aren't still messing with him, it isn't your problem to deal with. If his brother and girlfriend choose to believe him, then that is for them to deal with because they are the ones he is making fools of, not you! Keep going on with your life and dont give him, or them, any more thought....they are just a waste of your time!
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