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Hi I'm June and I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 soon to be 18. You've probably heard this sort of situation tons of times but my boyfriend wants to have sex and we've had this conversation multiple times of how I feel I'm not ready and I have told him my decision was no and the other night the subject came up again and I told him I wasn't ready but he wasn't really accepting my answer and he was like if you trust me you'll let me do it. I trust him a lot and I really like him and he knows that but I myself just don't feel ready and he kept pushing for me to change my mind and I gave in and said I'd have sex with him and now I'm gonna see him sometime this week and he wants to do it, idk what to do I'm scared and I'm not ready to have sex but he doesn't want no for an answer what should I do. I love him a lot but I'm just not ready, any advice is helpful. (link)
Honestly, if this guy doesn't respect that you don't want to do it with him, he's just not right for you(in my opinion). When my mom was your age she was dating this guy for awhile and then he wanted to do it and she was like "no way, Jose!" so he broke up with her, but she didn't care because he didn't respect that she had her own choice about it.

Hope I helped! :D




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