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Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???

PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!! (link)
I can undterstand why you would be a little bit upset... but look its a guy! all of them do it, its nothing new hes just a guy and for some reason they like to look at that stuff... trust me its not like hes ever gonna get to go out with anyone of them! so i would sweat it...he doesnt know any better


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a month now, he's really shy but i no he really likes me. We haven't hugged, kissed, held hands, etc. all we did was say i love you and call each other and those little things. For valentines day i want him to at least hug me... but i don't know if he is ready for that because he is so shy... how can i tell if he is? What do i do? I am really confused... i rate 5's... pleaz help... (link)
Maybe he doesnt know if your ready.. you should make the first move, try to hug him or just grab his hand and see his reaction if he likes it or not.. who knows maybe he was just waitin on you to descide


me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ? (link)
I would consider that abuse.. i would tell him to stop it if you dont like it.. because it hurts your feelings to see your own b/f doing that to you... tell him how you feel about him doing it and just explain to him that you dont like to be treated that way and if he doesnt understand then maybe he isnt the one


I just broke up with my boy friend and I feel miserable. I feel as if the world i going to end. I thought he was the one you knkow? But he did the same thing to me just like the others. No relationship has gone good for me. Every one was a jerk and used me, or just wanted to sleep with me. I don't think that I can get over this and feel as if the only way to stop the pain i to go in eternal sleep six feet under. Please someone help. And don't tell me to get over it b/c I've tried that to many and I'm afraid that's not going to work in this case. Please will someone HELP???!!!!! (link)
Hey, I know how you feel, you feel like as if you cant do anything for your self and all you want to do is cry and just be alone... its going to take some time to get over it but i would talk to him about it.. tell him how you feel and see if you can negotiate with him n what you want in a relationship... maybe he could understand you a little better if you tell him how you are feeling about your rel.


hey i have a problem well not really i wanna know how should i tell my ex b/f that i still love him lol i know this sounds crazy but its true!!! if anyone can help me thanx p.s i rate good!!!!! (link)
I know exactly how you are feeling about that! i went through the same thing and still kind of am.. Just tell him how you feel and tell him that you still care for him and hopefully he will exept that and things will be right again.. just tell him how you are feeling and hopefully he will understand where you are coming from... who knows maybe he feels the same way about you too




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