hi...
me and my ex boyfriend broke up the second of September of 2007 and have not spoken to each other two months before that because he went Leftbridge Alberta(i think) and was out of cell range so we couldn't text/call each other and on the first day of school we haven't spoken to each other and i was to scared/stubborn to talk to him so the next day my friends broke up with him for me and at first i didn't care it was fine until a couple weeks later i realized that i was still in love with him...that was a year ago and during school i would see him during break and lunch etc. and my heart would ache.And every month I would tell my best friend that it was like an amount of months that we haven't spoke to each other. it has now been a year and i still cry over him I really want to move on but then again I don't want to what do i do
The two best ways to get over/fix this that I can think of are:
a) You need to realize that you can't well on the past constantly. When you look too far in the past, you can't look forward to, well, moving forward. Crying over a breakup that happened almost a year ago won't help you at all. The one thing you can do is start meeting new people.
b) If you're really in love with him, then shouldn't you be able to talk to him? If you previously had a relationship with him, you should know what he's about and be able to talk to him easily. Start by saying "Hi!" or have small conversations with him...
Hopefully, this helps! Good luck! And feel better!
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this is going to be long story but im going to try to make this short as possible.
okay... there's two guys im going to talk about: Landon and Cole [not real names]
in december, we had this dance in this school and we had to perform. we had a practice, Landon chose me, he had a boyfriend but we ended up liking each other but he had a gf. in january i told him i didn't cuz i just cudnt take the pain of him having a gf and all. landon is cole's best friend, then in febuary cole asked me out. but i turned him down. he was so upset. me and cole have broken hearts. well we all text each other like a texting triangle. i text cole more and i kinda like it cuz i realize how much i really wanted to say yes back then. then all of a sudden landon started getting jealous. i dont know what to do know who i seem to like more. i seem to love both and i just can't stop, they both seem so... perfect! i never got over landon, and im starting to like cole. is it okay to like two guys but lying to them about not liking them? and i can't date until im 16 and let's say im under that...
If Landon is still dating this girl, then he needs to get his priorites straight. I understand that feelings for people change, but Landon shouldn't be making any moves if he already has a girlfriend. If anything he need to be absolutely sure about how he feels for you and how he feels for his girlfriend. As for you and Cole, it sounds like things can work out better with the two of you. Landon shouldn't be jealous of something he already has. If he's in a reationship with someone, then he needs to appreciate what he's got. If he really is that good of a boyfriend, then he would do anything he could to save the relationship. If it does come to the point that you go for Landon instead of Cole then be careful because another girl may come around that he may like more then you, and you'll be left hurting. The guys shouldn't be jealous of each other, but be supportive of each other. It shouldn't be some "competition". They should be happy for each other either way.
If you're not allowed to date now, then maybe you shouldn't be focusing on the guys. You should wait and see what else is out there for you. And when it does come to the time when you can date, then you'll be completely sure of who will have genuine feelings for you. I wouldn't worry about stuff like this if I were you. Focus more on what'll make you happy, not on what'll make you stressed or confused. Choose someone who will have their main focus in a BF/GF relationship on you.
Hope this helps! Good luck!
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