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Member Since: June 22, 2005
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Last Update: January 30, 2006
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i have NO clue what to get my b/f for v-day.. he likes skateboarding and hes doing something really really big for me so i want to do/get something nice for him

any suggestions?

A nice t-shirt would do...Don't spend too much money on a boyfriend. Remember love is all that matters...

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Well, one of my very best friends is getting married. But in order to go to her wedding I would have to buy an airplane ticket that costs about $500.00 and then the hotel, food , transportation, dress for the wedding and of course a nice gift (she deserves it!) but I don't have money. I know she would understand, but my other best friend wants to pay for all of these things for me...I don't feel confortable doing this. I love them both, and because I love them I don't want to make anybody pay for my stuff.
What would you do?

If I were you I would talk to my two friends and tell them that you cannot go, even though you would love to be there. Send her a nice gift and a great card. If they are your friends, they will understand.

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Yeah, so my guy and I have been together for almost 20 months, and he proposed awhile back.
The thing is, about a month ago we had a big fight over something INCREDIBLY stupid and almost broke up before realizing that it was completely fixable, and that we'd both be miserable without each other. So really, we never broke up...but I want to know if we're still engaged. It's getting close to a year since he proposed. Should I just randomly do something like "You remember what you asked me a year ago today?"
I mean, he still talks about our relationship as if it'll never end, so I think he still feels the same way. I know he still loves me (if anything, he seems to love me more, and I love him)
So...how do I go about bringing this up?

Ok. Make sure you guys are alone and nobody would interrupt you.
You can start talking about the day when he proposed and tell him how good you feel about that. Nicely, gently, ask him how does he feel about it. Then, right then, you will know what is in his head. Remember you are not to bring up anything negative to this conversation. All nice and gentle...Do not scare this man off!

Caution: Please do not pressure him nor nag him. Just make it look innocent.

Please come back and tell me what happened...

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