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When I was 16 i began dating my first boyfriend that i later lost my virginity to. Just before my 19th birthday we called it quits and i became very sexually active with different guys outside of our small town. Last year i met an amazing guy that i fell head over heels for. Wanting to be the polar opposite from our friends i deliberately gave the impression that i was a sweet innocent young lady who was very reserved. It's been over a year of dating this guy and I am now 22 years of age. I've been checked for STDS and VD and came out clean. My boyfriend and I are living together and deeply in love, but he still thinks I've only been with 5 guys including himself!!! When in reality my 'number' is around double that closer to 10 or 12!!! Yuck!! I know he doesn't care about my 'number' but i know he would care about my lie and revamping. He would never meet or run into any of the men I've been with, but I cant keep my secret anymore. Should i tell him the truth and how???? (link)
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Don't we all go through this? Rather or not to tell the man in our lives "our number"?
Well, if you feel that you can't keep it a secret anymore then tell him, but my advice would be not to.
I hate lying and I hate being lied to, but I have been with my husband for 10 years, married for 8 years, and to this day he doesn't know how many men I slept with before he and I got together. You see that doesn't really matter, because it doesn't define who I am now. The same goes for you. You were and still are young and you did something that you feel is stupid, but that doesn't have anything to do with the person you are today.
Why do you want to tell him? Has he asked you how many men you slept with?
If the answer is no to that latter question then I would definitely keep it to myself, but if he flat out asks and you feel the need own up to your "number" then do so.
In the end it doesn't matter what anyone else says, only what your conscience can stand.
I hope I helped. Good luck:)
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