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Hi There!! You can call me Jae, Silver, Kitten, or SilverKitten lol... I'm a 20 year old Female from GA and I love to read. I will try to answer any questions to the best of my ability- thanks for stopping by!!

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hes been my best friend since school started.. now he seems more than a friend..he sends me sweet text messages and IMs but at school its not like that.. he only shows the way he feels through written words but he totally has me in a way nobody has made me feel before, he's my date to my banquet next week

i want so bad to be his girlfriend how do i show him without words that i like him? how do i get him to feel more comfortable in person instead of the computer and talking on the phone? i sound like a complete dork i know but i've been crazy for this guy even before we were best friends...

I recommend writing your real feelings in words too- tell him you just don't understand why he won't try any of these things in person. Or after a sweet message write back and say "where is that in person?" lol... or next time before you part ways you could try for a hug or touch his shoulder- something suddle to start out with... and see where it leads!! Hope this helps and that you find what you're lookin for- TAKE CARE!!

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i met my my man about 10 months ago, and things between us love-wise couldnt be better. no guy has ever treated me as good as he does, and i cant say ive ever been this happy before. he would, and does do anything in the world for me. and i love him with all my heart. our families are really close, and have been since WAY before we were both born. we've got so many things in common, and we plan on getting married in a few years. but he's been doing horrible in school, and although i do give him credit for occassionally getting a 'C' or a 'D' instead of an 'F'- he got his progress reports back, and they were HORRIBLE!- his parents are taking away his car, and are making him quit his job in the hopes that maybe he'll get his act together. i cant take it anymore! i have tried SOOOO hard to talk some sense into him. ive tried telling him that he's ruining 'our' future by getting bad grades. i ask him all the time what kind of job he expects on landing with grades as bad as they are, and he ALWAYS tells me he's trying, but that he doesnt wanna talk about it- and every progress report is no much better than the last. i really dont know what to do. his mother is forever telling him that im gonna leave him if he doesnt get it together, because i can do 'so much better'- and im getting curious as to if i really can. someone PLEASE tell me what to do. both male and female opinions would help on this one. thank you soooo much. i'll rate high on ALL ANSWERS- good or bad.

have you considered he might have a learning or atention dissability? or maybe he needs tutoring... heck maybe for dates ya'll could help him study (it's not much fun but if you really stick with it, it might be beneficial to both of you) or maybe positive reinforcement- I don't know how dates go for ya'll but maybe offer him- if you get a "B" (or start with "c" and move up) on your next test I will pay for our next movie or dinner or something... or again if your helping him study ask him questions and for every correct answer he can have a kiss- the more difficult the question the better the kiss... and so on... I hope this helps if I think of anything else I'll let you know- hey you might try looking up motivation techniques on google- GOOD LUCK & TAKE CARE!!

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