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"Everyone has those days when they're feeling upset, for maybe no reason at all, and all you have to do is be there for them."
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ok well my boyfriends are going through some stuff right now and im pretty upset. The other night i had like a nervous breakdown and i started saying how i should die because no one would miss me and my firend said that he would miss me and i got reallly upset again because i turned him down for my boyfriend. Then me and my friend kissed somehow and my supposidly best friend told my boyfriend and now he's really mad at me and i just feel all upset and like crap and he wont answer any of my phone calls and i just dont know what to do. (link)
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Okay, if you really want to keep your boyfriend..explain to him that you were just were just really depressed and upset, and your friend was just helping you out. Say you didn't mean to hurt his feelings in anyway, and completely regret ever kissing/whatever with your friend. Your 'best friend' doesn't sound much like a FRIEND to me, much LESS a 'best friend'. I'd lose whoever ratted you out, because maybe you wouldn't have to deal with this, if it wasn't for them. Gooood luck!♥
Sam
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how do you get over a broken heart? (link)
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After lots and lots of time, you will be over a broken heart. It seems to take forever, and sometimes it does, but you just have to be patient. Crying will occur a lot, to the point where you won't be able to take it..but one day it'll just all stop and go away. And that's when you'll feel the happiest you've ever been.
Sam
P.S. - Good luck.♥
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Ok, so my ex and I broke up and I really want him back but my cousin said he was cheating on me. But I trust him. but even if we did get back together I wouldn't be able to see him until sometime after june cuz we got in trouble. And his sister that i go to school with said hes been cutting his arm cuz hes not happy. So if hes not happy and hes not mad at me should I ask him back out and what would he say (link)
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Okay, honestly, I think you should hold off for a little bit. One reason being that he isn't happy..you don't know if you could fix that. Let him go for awhile, it's not going to do you any good if you get back together RIGHT not because like you said, you can't be together. Just wait until the time comes when you're allowed to see him, then make your decision on whether to get back together. By then, he'll hopefully be happy and stop with the cutting, and you guys can get back together. If you really like him, you'll give him the time and space he needs to become a happier person, and then you guys will be wayy better and happier together! ♥
Sam
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