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I was born with a rare physical disablity. most people dont understand so they ask me rude questions about it. im totally used to it and as much as it bothers me i tend to ignore it. i would wish someday i find someone who had the same disablity because i never met someone with it. i wanted someone to talk about it and understand perfectly what im saying.someone who has had full on experience. well my wish came true. i certainly got more then i asked for. he is a boy who has the same interests as i do and the same physical disablity. im defniteley one of the only people who truly understands him. theres just one problem. we live about 300 miles away from eachother. he lives in virginia and i live in colorado. he is one of those people who couldnt handle long distance relationships. he needs someone to hold and cuddle with and just be there for him. so when he is single he hates it. he looks for a girl that he is attracted to mentally and physically and just asks her out. he doesnt expect her to be his one true love just a person to hold his hand with and secretly sometimes i question if he truly loves her. with all his past relationships women tend to hurt him. not because he deserves it, but because he is easily hurt and they just dont think about his feelings in that moment of time. I love this boy with a passion and if only he could see that. I made plans to graduate early this year as my senior year in highschool. so i could join program in delaware where it prepares you for college and you live in the school! oh and did i mention there be only 10 girls in the program? not as much drama! yayyy! i got phonecall from program and they said i cant join. i have to be graduated from higschool and start program in the fall. i cant play catch up if i joined in january which i originally planned. the program was my only excuse to see this boy that my parents would buy into it. now i dont know what to do. i just want to runaway to virginia and show that boy what he has been missing! i would treat him better then all his past girlfriends treated him. just like the movies.. i tried to get over this boy but i just cant. i loved him for the past 6months now. i cant stay mad at him for longer then 5minutes at the most. i love him to death and i would give up my life for him instantly. i thought i been in love before in my past relationships but this is a total new feeling inside that i cant control. my parents dont understand at all. i tried explaining to them but there like "why cant you find boy who lives near you?" i love this boy more then anything else. (link)
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Alright, so you have a few options.
One is if you're 18, your parents can't stop you from going. You're legally an adult and you can go if you want.
Two is just wait it out. I think this is the best option, personally. Just wait until you graduate and then go out there to be with him. If you love him and he loves you, you should both be able to wait.
Just don't runaway. It's very lame and immature and you WILL get caught, no matter what.
Good luck!
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Theres this boy mike, he wants to hook up with me, but i've never really.. hooked up with a guy before. Ive had boyfriends but I've only made out.
What do you do?
When do you know its the right time to start?
Do you start with making out?
How do you give a blow job/hand job.
and isn't it a little awkward when you guys finish? (link)
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Oh geeze. This is kinda awkward to answer. Hahah, but I'll give it a shot. You'll know it's right. Everything should come pretty naturally and feel natural. If you feel uncomfortable, it's probably not the right time for you to start.
As for how to make out and give blow jobs and hand jobs, that will also come naturally. No one ever taught me how, you just...do it, if that makes sense.
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I'm 22 years old. I live in PA. I met my recently x boyfriend on a dating site back in january. We started to talk a lot and I fell in love with him. He lives in New York. Well he told me he'd never met someone that he'd had so much in common with before and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and everything. Well, things kinda changed a little when he had to move to Wyoming for work. Well, I figured if I had money I'd go out to see him, and if not, it was ok, because he'd be back on the East Coast in September. Well a couple weeks ago he told me he was on drugs. We had a huge fight because I hate drugs, but we resolved everything. So anyway, today he told me he wanted to take a break and date. I totally just lost it. I couldn't understand why he would want to date anyone else if he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me." So anyway, the next thing I know he's screaming at me and telling me to leave him alone. I asked him if he was still on drugs, and he said, "It's none of your fucking business, it's my personal business. I don't ask you if you're on drugs because that's your life." This coming from the guy who told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. So anyway, he started making me feel liek shit telling me how he had a date tonight and everything. I just don't know what to do, my heart's totally broken and no one understands. What should I do? (link)
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He's not worth your time. It's sweet that he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, but he has to show it. Also, if you're looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with, you don't want anyone on drugs. They have to be able to support you and any potential children you might have. I say you should dump him. You'll find someone else who is clean and has a good head on their shoulders.
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I have this ex and we recently broke up and he got back on the dating scene. Well after about a month I started being strangely jealous about him dating her. Now they broke up because she was saying at lunch that they were gonna break-up. So now he is single and he has been flirting with me a lot, and just the other day he told his friend something when I was next to him and the guy got all wide eyed and stared at me? I don't know whether I should confess my love to him and possibly get turned down or should I stay in my dumb shell and know that I will always love him? (link)
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If you think he feels the same way about you, you should tell him. If he does, then he'll be happy you did and so will you. If it turns out that he doesn't, it's his loss, but you will feel relieved because you've gotten it off of your chest and you will finally know how you feel. Just make sure you say exactly what you want to say and put some thought into it.
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