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my boyfriend and i have been together on and off for about a year. we are together now. he is 21 and i am 19. i know it doesnt seen like much difference but to him it does. he sees me in his future and i see him in mine. we love each other as well. the only problem is that we dont really have anything in common. that is a problem for him. he likes sports and i kinda dont know what i like! but i go to his games, watch sports with him as much as i can. he does things for me too. but he asked me yesterday, 3 years down the road and we are married what will we talk about? that is his concern, that we have nothing in common and we wont have anything to talk about...(one of his concerns) so i guess i just want to know if we arent right for each other or what. thank you. (link)
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He should relax. It sounds like you two are doing pretty good. You're committed to eachother enough to try to enjoy your individual interests. One of the best things about a relationship is discovering new things together. So you may not like sports and he may not like your music. Two years from now the two of you may be very involved in ballroom dancing together. Some of the best couples are the ones who are always teaching eachother something new.
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Ok I am having a realy hard time finding a boyfriend and so do I need aboyfriend or not? (link)
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You don't need a boyfriend at all. Just be yourself and it will happen for you. Besides, if you're looking for love you'll never find it. It's one of those things that just kind of happens.
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I'm a female, and 15 years old. should I forgive my boyfriend, if he thinks he got another girl pregnant? because this only happened one time, and he says he loves me, and it wasn't he's fault that this happened, because the girl forced him to do it with her. (link)
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Unfortunately he's lying to you. I really doubt that this girl forced him into sex. I don't mean to sound harsh but at fifteen you two don't really know what love is. Does it really matter that this has only happened once? Have some respect for yourself and get away from this person who is using you.
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