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Hey Rachel~~~
...yeah im 15 and a guy right, ok yeah and um i want a boyfriend (yes rachel you know who this is{remember fourth grade})anyway what should i do do you have any ideas, suggestions, friends maybe? hahahaha but seriously got anything for me? by the way you better not say my name haha

HA! i knoww who you are! wow i have not spoken to you in F-O-R-E-V-E-R !* ummm ideas.. lemme think... GO TO A PREP MIXER !* your sure to find SOMEONE there !* i am not sure if i have gay friends ... some dress metrosexual and kind of act like it but I*m not going to go up to them and be like ARE YOU GAYY !?! lol... if they ever do tell me then I*ll be sure to mention you !* nice hearing from you ummmm.... FREDDY BOY !* lol x0x

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hey ive never had a boyfriend, or danced at a dance... im 13 and considered pretty popular... im outgoing and stuff... but no one seems to like me... anything wrong with me ?!*

no nothing is wrong with you... my firsty REAL boyfriend wasn*t until 8th grade, and maybe you need to make the first move they may just be overwhelmed with your beautifulness !* lol seriously, don*t worry about it !* all the guys will come around... you*ll see.

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i like this girl and shes new to my school and i relly feel a bond between us but she doesnt like my friends and i think that some of her friends are dorks. I really like this girl and stuff, but i think the friendship difference might be a problem. Also im not to sure if she likes me. im kinda shy and i told her i liked her but i dun wanna ask her how she feels. well thanks a bunch buddy

okay yeaa... let*s try to not be so obvious. and seriously this girl thinks your a cool kid it*s just that the friend thing isn*t gunna work, and let*s not call her friends dorks, she has her friends for a reason and that reason being that because they are down to earth and so freaking nice and she doesn*t want to get involved with a guy who doesn*t realize how much she*s been through with friends and how grateful she is to have her friends now. and to help you out she thinks your cool and all but she doesn*t want to be more than friends, nor does she want to lead you on.
hope i helped !* :o)

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I have never been asked to dance @ a school dance and i never have had a boyfriend..is there something wrong with me

xox

There's nothing wrong with you! It's just you need to be more outgoing, if you were more guys will like you and want to be around you! Don't be afraid to be yourself! Believe me I always make an ass out of myself! lol... Hope I helped!

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im going out with someone but i think i like someone else. im afraid if i dump my boyfriend ill regret it and want him back. ive been thinking about this for a long time and i dont know what to do! do you have any advice?
- confused girlfriend

Well, if your not quite sure than ask your boyfriend if you can take a break, and then you can see if you have feelings for this other guy or not. but, make sure your boyfriend doesn't see with you with him if he does, he might not want to get back together (( but thats only if you do )). Hope I helped. Need anything else leave one in the box.

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do you know any good quotes about being in love or loving someone a lot? thanks.

Heyy !* Sorry it took so long to reply. But, here are some good ones.

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was choice, but falling in love with you was completely out of my control.

Love Is When You Don't Want To Go To Sleep, Because Reality Is Better Than A Dream.

People say you only fall in love once, but when I hear your voice I fall in love all over again

Its Hard To Tell Your Mind To Stop Loving Someone When Your Heart Still Does

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; while loving someone deeply gives you courage

Hope I helped !* If you need more leave one in my box !*

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i have a boyfriend, but ive been catching myself thinking of another guy.. i dont really no the guy well.. and i dont have feelings for him.. and i duno why hes always on my mind. do you have any ideas?

Heyy !* Umm... I can't really distinguish what you trying to ask me. But, I have a pretty good idea. Just when your mind starts to wander and you begin to think about him, just try calling your boyfriend or look at a picture of your boyfriend. Just to remind yourself that he's your boyfriend and he's the one you love. Hope I helped !*

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OkAy...I wEnT tO tHe BeAcH fOr tWo WeeKs* We WeReN*t BoYfRiEnD aNd GiRlFrIeNd YeT bUt We BoTh LiKeD eAcHoThEr a LOT! wE mAde A PrOmIsE tHaT wE cOuLdN*t Go OuT wItH aNyOnE, MaKe oUt wItH aNyOnE, Or dO aNyThInG b/C wE bOtH lIkEd eAcHoThEr Too MuCh ((BaD PrOmIsE)) WeLL...i GeT bAcK aNd He TeLLs Me tHaT hE wEnT oUt WiTh aNoThEr gUrL wHiLe I wAs gOnE. ThAnKs FoR tHe HoNeStY bUt He bRoKe OuR pRoMiSe! I fOrGaVe hIm aNd aLL bUt hE sTiLL tHiNkS i*M MaD aT hIm ((WhIcK i Am..A lIttLe)) bUt i CaN*t RlY gEt OvEr hIm...I*ve TrIeD! hEs MoVeD oN tHo...He LiKeS oThEr PPl aNd sTuFF bUt He sTiLL tHiNkS i*m MaD aNd I cAn TeLL hEs MaD aT mE fOr BeInG mAd! I wAnTeD tO bE fRiEnDs...BuT rIgHt NoW wE aReNt TaLkInG oR aNyThInG. I dOnT wAnT tO bReAk Off tHe SpEcIaL rElAtIoNsHiP tHaT wE haD lIkE tHiS..iN a FiGhT bUt i DuNNo HoW tO tAlK tO hIm B/c EvErYtImE i TrY tO wE gET iNtO aNoThEr fIgHt! wHaT sHoUlD i Do?

sometimes the only reasonable thing you can do is walk away. it will cause less pain than putting yourself through that again. believe me i have had to walk away several times but in the end everything works out. hope i helped !!

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i really like this guy but he has no idea. we're close friends but i want it to be more. i feel like if i tell him it will hurt worse if he rejects me than if i just sit and watch him get hurt over and over by girls that are just playing with him. he likes this girl and she treats him like shit. she always plays with his mind and leads him on when in the end she doesnt even care about him. what do i do??

you could explain to him that you really care about him and that you don't want him to get hurt by these other girls. and there's always the chance that he won't reject you, but don't get your hopes up! hope i helped :0)

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im getting mixed messages from my boyfriend. we makes plans to go out and then he cancels them at the last minute, and he never calls me when he says he will. i know you are going to tell me to talk to him, but i cant. im scared it will ruin our relationship. in fact i no it will. i ask him why he always cancels plans and never calls me... i like him alot and i just dont know what to do.. do you have any ideas? thanks.

my question is would you rather go on like this or find someone else that can make time for you? i mean do you really want to be with someone who can't make time for you in his life? i don't know what else to tell you than talk to him about it, and if he wants to ruin your relationship over that than its his loss not yours.

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I have a girlfriend. I love her SO much, she means the world to me. But her family is really messed up. Her mom is a psycho bitch and her dad is pussy whipped. Her mom will throw bitch fits for no reason, yell at her, kick her off whatever she's doing, make her walk places where she should be driven, etc. Today I was on the phone with her and her mom started yelling at her while I was on the phone, I could hear her yelling and stomping up the stairs and my girlfriend said "She's coming to hit me, I'll call you back". I don't know what to do. I want to tell someone but she keeps saying that would only make things worse. What should I do?

I would definitely do something. If you really love her you will do something about it. I don't know what else to say than tell someone. I mean she says that because I'm sure she loves her mom and she doesn't want her to be like put in rehab or whatever. But, it's the best thing to do! If you need more specific advice leave one in my inbox! hope i helped :)~

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i like this guy whose gona be a junior and im gona b a freshman. I know he likes me too would it be wrong for me to go out with him? By the way this collum thing is really neat!

well actually last year my friend ((freshman)) went out with this senior. i mean i guess it depends on the guy, because this kid wasn't very experienced. he had only had one girlfriend prior to my friend, and he had never kissed a girl. he was so sweet too, he would write songs and stuff for her. i don't think it is wrong but make sure you know the guy before you go out. ~ Thanks for the compliment! hope i helped !! ~

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thanks for your help. i think its cool how you have this advice thing going. youre advice is really good, i read all of it. you sound like a proffesional. it looks like im ahead of you(lol) cuz i already said all that stuff you told me to say to him.. but all he says is what do you want me to do? not be their friend? well thats not what i want.. i want them to be friends but i dont know these girls. i met some of them and they were SO mean to me. they laughed at everything i said or did, and everytime i tried to talk to them they ignored me or whispered with eachother. i told him i dont like htem but i mean theyre probably different around him cuz im not there. i dont wanna dump him cuz i love him and i no he loves me but i mean its just weird.. thanks for ur help. again haha youve given the best adviceoutta anyone ive asked
~anonymous

haha thanks! yeaa, i don't know much more you could do but talk to him. lol sorry if i wasn't much help! x0x

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thanks.. but i did confront him and he just says that he doesnt like them but he likes me. i am jealous but dont you think its weird how hes always talking on the phone to girls and how hes always doing stuff with them? i mean, im not saying im the only girl he can talk to on the phone and hang out wiht... but its a lot more girls than i expected. he also goes to these other girls w/ his problems and i feel like he should be coming to me. i did talk to him about it and he said that hes just used to going to them... it made me feel like i wasnt a big part of his life... do you have anymore advice? thanks
~anonymous

well, he should be paying more attention to you more than these other girls. but you should trust him, i'm sure he only strictly friends with them. but i dont think its appropriate for him to be talking on the phone with them and hanging out with them, his focus should be on you. like i said you should explain to him that you dislike that hes around all these other girls, and that you know he loves you more but you just dont like the fact that hes around all these other girls and talking to them so often. explain to him that you trust him but not those other girls. and you feel kind of unconfortable with him hanging around them all the time, especially with you not there. hope i helped ((again)) lol
need anything else...leave one in my box

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hey,
i need some advice about my boyfriend. he has a lot of female friends and sometimes i wonder if he likes them. i know he likes me but girls are always calling him and he is always hanging out with these girls. he says he doesnt like them and they dont like him but sometimes i wonder if deep down he really does. i like him a lot and im scared that i am giving someone my heart who likes other girls other than me. i know he is faithful but it bothers me when he is always talking on the phone to other girls. im not saying im the only girl he can talk to.. but it just gets to me when i call him and hes talking to another girl on the other line. i talk to him about it and he says he likes me alot and he definalty doesnt like those other girls.. they are just friends. but im still worried. is there something wrong with me? what should i do? thanks for ur help
~anonymous

No, there is definitely nothing wrong with you. I remember one of my boyfriends used to always talk to girls on the phone and stuff and i would get jealous because ((i know this sounds selfish)) but i wanted hima all to myself. I don't know its like a natrual feeling for a girl. you could confront him and tell him how you feel that he talks to too many girls and and be straight foward and say you get jealous of that, he'll understand. hope i helped !!

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Does anyone know any quotes that are about love and her liking him so much and him not liking her at all? I need some for my profile... ANything about love will do! Thanks a bunch!

iLL rate you a 5 for a quote..whether i like it or not lol

here are some...

y0u can be told that y0ur q0rqeous everryday
and pe0ple can say y0ur beautiful in every way
but y0u d0n`t believe it -- n0t for one minute x0
cause the boy wh0`s opini0n means the most..
[ ... w0n`t admit it ... ]


I know it's a cornball thing, but love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? I say fall head over heels. Find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart."

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I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok??

ehhhh.. sorry to say but thats kinda pushing it. :(

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well i went to the fair the other day and i saw that everyone was paired up, well not everyone but it seemed like that and i have been single for about 3 months now and im looking for a good relationship, i guess i just miss being held, and holding hands, do you think it's okay to start looking around again ?? i also have a crush at this guy at my school shoudl i tell him because a freind of mine told me that i'd have a chance with him? would it ruien our friendhship ?

Heyy!! Yea, I think everyone wants that, just the thought of someone loves you. I went out with my best friend. And now we don't talk anymore. You could try to see if things could work, I mean it really does depend on the guy. Also, how good of friends you guys are. Who knows it may make your friendship stronger....

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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

well, personally i think you should dump him or atleast tell him. I mean if you can't enjoy yourself around him than why are you with him?

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