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.. first of all, ratings dont really matter to me, i dont understand the concept of rating advice, it's adivce, good or bad it's the same thing, and most people are going to take advice they dont want and rate it bad, cuz they dont like it, when in all actuality it's probably the BEST adivce they could get.... and secondly there's not much to know about me.. ima typical 18 year old girl fixin to graduate in like a week.. and i really don't know who i am, so dont expect me to tell u :)
**human beings must be known to be loved, but divine beings must be loved to be known*** -Pascal

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(I wasnt quite sure where to place this question, so I just chose here)
I have been dating a guy for about a month and a half now, and he is about to graduate from highschool. We dont know eachother very well, which is why I am about to ask this. I got invited to his graduation party, which is a bit less than a month away now. Problem is, I have absolutly no idea what to do for a gift. I dont know what types of things you get for someone who is graduating, this is the first time I've had to deal with having to get a graduation gift. Any help whatsoever would be greatly appreciated!

Money.. im fixing to graduate, and that's what i hope most people get me, bcuz i could really use a computer when i leave and a new car, but i know no one can get those, but if everyone gives money you can save it and buy things you need
money's less thoughtful but more versitile..

and maybe get a cute lil teddy bear:D.. well if he's the kind of guy who likes stuffed animals :D

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Hey, well my current boyfriend is my first kiss and everything, and I'm nto really sure if im a great kisser or not. If someone could give me some tips on making out that would b awesome!!! I normally follow his lead but i think i wanna surprise him with something of my own for once lol :p

it all depends on him.. you could ask him ways to improve.. :) that's me and my boyfriend do, we talk bout ways to improve on things..:D

plus i like to suck on he's tongue.. i did it once to someone and it was fun and they liked it.. but my current boyfriend doesnt like it.. so yea.. like i said jus ask your boyfriend :P

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ive liked this guy for a while .. but one of my friends has liked him for two years. even though me and her arent that close id still feel bad for making a move or anything even though he acts like he likes me too. i dont want to hurt her but i dont want to not have him either. what do i do?

hmm.. typical girl question :D that tends to happen ALOT :) but i look at it this way, it's fine for two friends to like the same guy, but it all depends on who he likes, if he likes you.. she should be friend enough to let ya'll be together or vice-versa.. sorry if i was of no help

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Come home, climb in my bed, wake me up, and do naughty things to me at 7 in the morning. And then, let's fall asleep in one another's arms.

that would have been nice........

how bout friday night.... :)

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Ok here’s the situation, I’ve been seeing this girl for awhile now (over 2 years) Indeed I’m very happy and I’d say very much so in love. She makes me happy and I want to be with her, but recently I’ve met this other girl, I wouldn’t say she’s perfect for me but she’s someone I could see myself dating. Being around her makes me “funny” inside, and I think about her a lot as well as my own girlfriend. I know there is nothing wrong with my relationship now and I don’t want to cheat on her, but I don’t know. I feel a connection to this other girl, I enjoy being around her and even get a bit jealous when she’s talking about dating other guys… I haven’t known her really long; I’ve spent time with her as friend’s one on one to get away from other people. I’d never dream to cheat on my angle but these feelings make me feel so torn and confused I just wanted to know if I’ll get past these feelings or will I have to detach myself from this other girl to get rid of them and just return to complete certainty with my love. Do I really have feelings for this other girl? Or is it more or less a fad were we get along but I’m more so in love with the feelings I get with her attention? Does this mean there will be problems with me and my current girlfriend in the future? There have never been in the past… I’m so confused!

wow.. sounds like a movie :) like have you ever seen Shall We Dance or Forces of Nature? or there's some other movie, i dont remember the name but that happens and he ends up with the other girl instead of the one he's dating..so lets say, your still in highschool, or collge (im not sure how old you are :) ) but if you are then you have plenty of time to figure it out :) if your feeling become greater for this other girl, why not break up with your current girlfriend.. well go on a break anyway and then experience something else, maybe you just want to live a little before you think you should settle down. I had a friend once, who he loved his girlfriend, but he wanted something different before he was older and wanted to be married, and he kissed another girl and it jus didnt feel right, and proved to him that he did want his girlfriend for the Rest of His Life she was the only one for him ( so maybe you try to experience someone new, it might help you realize) granted im a girl and would really like that, but maybe it would give her a chance to experience someone new if only to realize ya'll cant live without each other :) i dont think i really helped, but im new at this :D
Good Luck!

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Who loves ya, baby?

You!!! :)

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