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Q: okay so i have relationship problems....
i just got back together w/ this adorable guy who ive had my eye on for a while
& i just broke up w/ an ex
the ex is sooo jealous of my current b/f they hate eachother and are pretty nasty to eachother
i want to still be friends w/ my ex and keep a good relation ship w/ the b.f. -- to top it all of my b/f/f is totally crushing on MY boyfriend. i don't want to sound like all possesive and stuff but i mean she is always tlking ot me how cute he is and how much she luvs him and dreams about him... what should i do??
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if your BFF is crushing on your current BF, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her... a true best friend would be hsppy for you and let you have your boyfriend...
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
send me your results
Chandler
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Q: Im 14/f and ive never had a boyfriend..is this weird...is it normal??
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if your only 14 and have never had a b/f up until now, then yes, it is normal
most girls might not want to start love-relationships UNTIL the age of 14, so now would be a great time for you to start
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Q: Hey Chandler, This guy i like likes me and i think he is going to ask me out but everyone is like he is waiting. He says it is not cool to take people to the dance but i want him to take me maybe but if i go i know something will happen tere how can i get him to ask me out and/or take me to our school dance?
signed anoymous
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dear anoymous,
if you both like eachother, and he is waiting for you to make the first move, then go ahead and make it
it's better for you two to become a couple or go on a normal date before anything big happens, such as a school dance, unless you WANT that to be the first thing
if he doesn't ask you to the dance like you wanted, then be aggressive and ask him yourself... you can always do it vise-versa
good luck, and let me know if it works out
ChAnDlEr
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Q: ok i like this guy and well i wanna sometimes say he likes me but then he doesnt hes kinda shy and well i can be around him too... i never really talk to him alot and if i do its nothing big just like asking a question or something.... i really wanna be friends with him but kinda want him to make da first move what should i do? its complicated....
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if you want this guy to make the first move, then he first of all needs to know you better!!!!! have conversations with him whenever you can, in between classes, at lunch, whenever he's not swarmed by other ppl
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Q: ok I have this boyfriend.. and we are like th cutest couple ever! and so i liked him so much i would do anything for him. So i gave him head and he told all his friends. Now they all think i am a slut! how can i convince them I NOT A SLUT?
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if your boyfriend's friends think you are a slut, and he's not doing anything about it, then he's REALLY not a good boyfriend
you should dump him, unless he comes around and decides to change for you and protect your rep.
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Q: he knows who i am TRUST ME he knows who i am he swims with me to so i see him at school and after so ya lost of oppurtunitys but im just not the type of person who can walk up to someone and start talking!
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well, you need to be aggressive to be able to get his FULL attention... since you swim with him, maybe you could see if he wants to race?? that's always a good way of showing you like him, AND showing off your talent for swimming... just an idea
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Q: whats the first move what should i do? note im shy and not that great at talking to him,,,
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EXAMPLE: if he's sitting nearby, go and sit down next to him and introduce yourself, if he doesn't already know who you are
if he says hi back, then try and start conversation to make sparx
thats ALWAYS the first step
then, just follow his lead, and you should become great friends!!!!!
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Q: im really shy and i like a guy and hes shy too.. i reallly like him but he wont talk to me and doesnt thnk he knows me... my friend has constonatly told him to talk to me but he either says no or he will but never does i dnt wanna tlk to him cause im to shy and just really wnt him to tlk to me wat do i do?
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Haha, I think the only answer to your problem is that this "guy" is playing Hard-To-Get
make the first move if your that anxious
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Q: Hi Chandler My name is Rezzy well that is what my friends call. I go to Mt. Vernon. I was wondering if you could give me some advice on getting this guy to like me. I really like him. His name is Bobby Langendorfer. Do u know him? I know he has a girlfriend but I am willing to be the cheatie. He is really hotttt..i think i am in love i have liked him since 5th grade and i really want him to go out with me and maybe we can be the Prince and Princess at the Valetine's day dance! So i was just wondering if you could give me some advice on getting this guy!!
- Rezzy G.
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To answer your question Rezzy, your might just have to do what you need to do the most: follow your heart. Your heart will guide you through the process...
(LAURA CAPPS, THANKS A LOT)
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I cant help you unless you specify WHAT you are confused about.
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Q: There is this guy who likes me and i like him, but he's too scared to ask me out. Everyone tells him to do it, but he still wont. What do i do?? How do i make him ask me out?
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It's great that you and your crush like eachother! But if he's too scared to ask you out, that means that he's PROBABLY waiting for you to make the first move. Get to know him, then see what happens. Let me know if it works out.
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Q: My best friend has a boyfriend, and I dont. I'm really mad at her because she wont help me find a date or a boyfriend. What should/can I do?
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Well, if your best friend is in the midst of her own relationship, then you cant expect her to always help you with YOUR love-life problems. If she's busy with her guy, then let the two of them be. The best time to ask your friend for help would be when she's not with her boyfriend.
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bio
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~READY FOR SOME ACTION~
Most people find me very attractive for my age. They also think that I am great at giving advice. I also have wonderful friends, too!
Another thing that I can help teens with is BOY/GIRL RELATIONSHIPS
Been there, done that;
I'm ALL EARS
Many people also always tend to come to me when they are having relationship problems. My best friend does that constantly, but I'm always there to help her out, as I will be for anyone who asks for help. :-)
My favorite sports are:
volleyball
diving
swimming
basketball
softball
lacrosse
Hope I can be of some help to anyone who needs it. I'm always here for advice!!!!!
Me and Laura Lee
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Keep the questions commin!
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: January 28, 2005 Answers: 18 Last Update: March 24, 2005 Visitors: 2187
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