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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more (link)
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Tell him he's had 17 chances to change and he's wasted all of them.
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alright, i really dont want any rude comments or anything like 'thats bad.' or 'thats unsafe' or something along those lines, please?
so, i met this guy in jan. ive never met him and he lives way up north while i live in the south. we've never met. we met on this website. its like myspace, and its not a dating site. so yeah, he's all over coming down here to meet me and finally be with me and i was all over it too. we've been going out by the way. and uh yeah. he's going to work the whole summer just so he can get enough money to come down here and stay for 2 weeks for my birthday (which is in september) and so yeah, i was total stocked about it, but now that ive actually thought about it, im not so sure i want him to come down here. i still love him and all ( yes, i love him. even though i've never met him, i knowwww, going out with someone off the internet is unsafe and theres a lot of creeps out there, but im positive hes not one of them and im also positive that i actually love him) soo uh yeah, i dont want him to waste his summer away and come down here and meet me and find out ima be the biggest dissapointment in his entire life and realize i wasnt the great person he thought i was and he'll probably never want anything to do with me ever again after he leave, or once he meets me. so, basically, i sorta kinda want to break up it him, cause i never thought it would get so serious, but i dont. cause im afraid that once i do, ill realize i made the biggest mistake ever and want him back and he wont be there this time. and im getting 2nd thoughts about him coming down here. ughh. i dont know. what should i doooo? :/ (link)
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First off, you really shouldn't have these negative thoughts about yourself! If you've been honest and yourself with him when you're chatting with him online he should know the real you and if he didn't like it he wouldn't be with you now most likely. If you two get along well you should be fine when he comes to visit.
If you're still a bit anxious about seeing him, why not talk to him about it? Knowing his thoughts on this may reassure you and help you make a decision.
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